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    How To Click With Just About Everyone

    Seat belts, everyone!

    Everyone is like a seatbelt.

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    Most often we position ourselves like this in relationships.

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    Then we wander around and ask "Why can't I find someone I click with?"

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    The solution: position yourself more like this.

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    People who can make this switch are pretty rare.

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    But somehow they find that they click with just about everyone.

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    I'm not yet one of these people. But I sincerely am trying to become one, and I'm starting with my conversations.

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    Because even if I don't feel the "clicks," I'll become just a little less self-obsessed and a little more humble.

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    And that is a good thing.

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