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Is It Fine To Cancel Plans In These Situations Or No?

Is it even ever okay to flake out?

  1. 1. Your friend is taking part in a play that they're really excited about and they want you to come, but it's three hours long and you're super tired. Is it okay to flake out?

    Your friend is taking part in a play that they're really excited about and they want you to come, but it's three hours long and you're super tired. Is it okay to flake out?

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1. Your friend is taking part in a play that they're really excited about and they want you to come, but it's three hours long and you're super tired. Is it okay to flake out?
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  1. 2. What if it were your partner taking part in the play and they really wanted you to come and support them, is it okay to flake out?

    What if it were your partner taking part in the play and they really wanted you to come and support them, is it okay to flake out?

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2. What if it were your partner taking part in the play and they really wanted you to come and support them, is it okay to flake out?
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  1. 3. Your colleague is leaving for another job and it's their last day. Everyone is going for drinks to say goodbye but you have a lot of work left to do. Do you flake out and stay late to finish your work, or join everyone for drinks?

    Your colleague is leaving for another job and it's their last day. Everyone is going for drinks to say goodbye but you have a lot of work left to do. Do you flake out and stay late to finish your work, or join everyone for drinks?

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3. Your colleague is leaving for another job and it's their last day. Everyone is going for drinks to say goodbye but you have a lot of work left to do. Do you flake out and stay late to finish your work, or join everyone for drinks?
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  1. 4. You were supposed to have a call with your mum this evening, but you got last minute tickets to a show you've always wanted to see. Is it okay to flake out on your mum?

    You were supposed to have a call with your mum this evening, but you got last minute tickets to a show you've always wanted to see. Is it okay to flake out on your mum?

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4. You were supposed to have a call with your mum this evening, but you got last minute tickets to a show you've always wanted to see. Is it okay to flake out on your mum?
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  1. 5. Your friend set up a blind date for you but you're feeling gross and not in the mood to go. Is it okay to flake out?

    Your friend set up a blind date for you but you're feeling gross and not in the mood to go. Is it okay to flake out?

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5. Your friend set up a blind date for you but you're feeling gross and not in the mood to go. Is it okay to flake out?
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  1. 6. Your friend wants to hang out tonight. You've flaked out on them the past two weekends. Is it okay to flake out tonight?

    Your friend wants to hang out tonight. You've flaked out on them the past two weekends. Is it okay to flake out tonight?

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6. Your friend wants to hang out tonight. You've flaked out on them the past two weekends. Is it okay to flake out tonight?
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  1. 7. You've been invited to a dinner with a few friends to celebrate someone's birthday. They reserved a specific number of seats. You're not really in the mood to go though, is it okay to flake out?

    You've been invited to a dinner with a few friends to celebrate someone's birthday. They reserved a specific number of seats. You're not really in the mood to go though, is it okay to flake out?

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7. You've been invited to a dinner with a few friends to celebrate someone's birthday. They reserved a specific number of seats. You're not really in the mood to go though, is it okay to flake out?
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  1. 8. You drunkenly agreed to go on a holiday with a friend and they almost immediately start booking flights and a hotel. You later realise that it would cost a lot of money and leave you eating beans for months afterwards, but they've already paid for everyth

    You drunkenly agreed to go on a holiday with a friend and they almost immediately start booking flights and a hotel. You later realise that it would cost a lot of money and leave you eating beans for months afterwards, but they've already paid for everything with the expectation that you will pay them back. Is it okay to flake out?

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8. You drunkenly agreed to go on a holiday with a friend and they almost immediately start booking flights and a hotel. You later realise that it would cost a lot of money and leave you eating beans for months afterwards, but they've already paid for everyth
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  1. 9. You RSVP'd to a wedding months ago. When it rolls around, you get invited to go on a very important work trip the same weekend that will really establish your career. Do you flake out on the wedding?

    You RSVP'd to a wedding months ago. When it rolls around, you get invited to go on a very important work trip the same weekend that will really establish your career. Do you flake out on the wedding?

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9. You RSVP'd to a wedding months ago. When it rolls around, you get invited to go on a very important work trip the same weekend that will really establish your career. Do you flake out on the wedding?
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