Step 5: DON’T LOWER YOUR EXPECTATIONSDefinitely be realistic, but never under-priced. You know what you want and what you deserve, don’t settle for second best. You don’t need to explain your choices to anyone, if they think the person they want you to be with is so great, they should date them. You may always wonder what you could have had and you will be deeply unsatisfied. Some may see it as particular, but to find your perfect match you need to follow your own criteria.By following your own map on the road to finding your hearts treasure will ensure that you find your life partner and not misconceive a stone in your path for your diamond, never to be found.