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    Self-Love Is Important, So Here Are Some Handy Tips For Single People On Valentine's Day

    Retail therapy always works.

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    Molly Townsin
    by Molly Townsin

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    Ewura-Ama Quarshie
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    BuzzFeed Contributor

    Valentine's Day is just around the corner, and couple-y propaganda is basically everywhere.

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    But just because you're single this V day doesn't mean you have to miss out! Here are 18 ways to practise self love on February 14th.

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    1. Get outside and enjoy your surroundings a little.

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    Going for a walk is a great way to clear your head, think about everything you’re thankful for, and honestly, just appreciate your own company. Maybe take the dog out, or just listen to the nature around you! It's surprisingly therapeutic.

    2. Revisit some of those hobbies you love, but never seem to have time for these days.

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    It’s easy to get caught up in work and responsibilities, so we often forget about the things that make us happy. Read a good book, play that instrument you haven't touched in a while, or maybe work on some art you've left behind. 

    3. How about picking a selection of your favourite films and having a movie marathon?

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    Let’s face it, many Valentine's Day plans consist of Netflix – what's better than watching your favourite movies without someone asking you questions about the plot every five minutes?!

    4. Or gather your besties together for a Galentine’s day.

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    Friends are as important, if not more so, than a significant other so why not rally the troops and have a day of friendship?

    5. If there's one thing that's never failed, it's retail therapy.

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    Yep, go shopping! Valentine's Day is about treating that special someone in your life, so why not buy those shoes you’ve had your eye on?!

    6. Write yourself a love letter.

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    The one opinion that truly matters is your own. Try writing yourself a letter and telling yourself just how much you mean to yourself. Keep it somewhere safe – future you will love it!

    7. Simply have a digital detox to help you unwind and relax for the day.

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    Taking a day to truly focus on you – without the pressures of social media – is so important and can do wonders for your mental health. What’s a better day to practise this self-love technique than on the most loving day of the year?!

    8. You don't have to go on a romantic getaway, just plan a solo trip away to focus on YOU.

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    Who says you can’t take yourself on a romantic getaway? Plan a weekend somewhere away from the stresses of life and give yourself a little love. 

    9. Cross off something that's been on your to-do list for a while.

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    If you’re like us, you probably have a list of things to do that’s as long as your arm, but never have the time to actually do them. Well, now you can! You’ve got the whole day to yourself without interruptions, enjoy it!

    10. Restaurants will probably be full of couples, so order in or cook something delicious for yourself.

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    Whether you want to make your favourite from scratch or let your local takeaway do the work, good food will boost your mood. Light some candles, set the table, put on your comfiest outfit, and have a cosy meal in the comfort of your own home.

    11. Or if you want to get out of the house, take yourself out on a date for Valentine's.

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    Sit in a restaurant and eat whatever you want, dress up just for yourself, and feel no obligation to spend more or impress a partner. People will be impressed by your confidence!

    12. Treat yourself to Valentine's chocolate – once they go on sale on February 15th!

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    We all know the prices get bumped up for V-day, so buying before the 14th is an unnecessary wallet drain. This is also a good time to get all sorts of discounted gifts (hello, early Christmas preppers), plus, chocolate tastes so much sweeter when you know you got a good deal! 

    13. If you want to feel fancy, go to afternoon tea.

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    Afternoon tea feels so luxurious but won't break the bank (there's almost always discounts to be found!). Having tea, cakes, and dainty sandwiches brought to you at your leisure is basically like being waited on hand and foot. 

    14. Let someone else take care of you for a while by booking in a spa day.

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    Spas, massages, manicures – these can feel like the height of luxury, especially with a professional doing them. And if you don't feel like going out, have a DIY spa day at home by lighting scented candles, painting your nails, having a bubble bath – whatever floats your boat! 

    15. Indulge your inner child at an arcade, funfair, or adult ball pit.

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    Yes, adult ball pits are a thing, and you should absolutely try one. Valentine's often reminds us of grown-up relationships, so try experiencing some childlike joy instead. Last one in is a rotten egg! 

    16. If you want to get away from any mention of Valentine's, hit the road and have an adventure somewhere new.

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    We bet there's a great activity or tourist attraction you live near to but haven't tried yet – now's the chance to check it out! Or just see how far you can travel in a day for a mini-trip! 

    17. And finally, make an anti-Valentine's playlist and pump up the volume.

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    If you just want to put a middle finger up at the day, listen to some anti-love songs and revel in your singledom. Curate your own or find a pre-made playlist online. 

    Remember, you can hang out with yourself any time of year! And if you do try any of these for V day, let us know in the comments!

    If you're planning a movie night this Valentine's, check out Book Of Love from BuzzFeed Studios!

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