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    People Are Pointing Out What Drops Someone From A 10 To A 5 Real Quick, And There Are No Lies Detected

    "I immediately lost any lady boner I once had for him."

    You know that feeling when you're on a date, everything is perfect, you think this person might even be The One...and then, they turn around and pull some bullshit?

    Well, Reddit user u/Boss31112 recently posed the question, "What turns someone from a 9 or 10 to a 5 real quick?"

    And there were so many great responses! Here are some of the top-voted answers:

    1. "Arrogance."


    "100% this. I'll never forget a compliment I gave to a guy I was dating once. I said something like 'I've never felt this way before.' He deadass responded to me with 'That's because I'm not like the rest of them. I have a certain 'je ne sais quoi' about me. And I'm not just saying that because I speak fluent French.' Instant turnoff."


    2. "Entitlement."


    "This shit goes straight to 0."


    3. "If they litter."


    "I went on a movie date with a super cute guy I was totally into. On our way home, he swung into Taco Bell. I was too nervous to order anything, but he got a few items. We started driving again, and he ate his last bites as a solid 9. Then, it happened. Dude rolled down his window and chucked his burrito wrappers out. I immediately lost any lady boner I once had for him."


    A person throwing a drink cup out the window of the front passenger side

    4. "Constantly talking over someone else who is talking. Really irritates me."


    5. "Lack of empathy."


    "And people who try to make you feel bad for having emotions or being 'sensitive,' like it's weird to care about things and people?"


    6. "Being rude or demanding to others, even slightly."


    "Mistreating the waitstaff. Total turnoff."


    A waiter holding out a plate of food

    7. "Being unnecessarily loud."


    8. "Gatekeepers. 'Oh yeah, you like _____? BET YOU CAN'T TELL ME ABOUT (random obscure fact).'"


    9. "No passions or personal interests beyond buying things."


    A person holding several large shopping bags

    10. "Anyone who says they’re an alpha is definitely a tool."


    11. "Shoving religion/politics down your throat."


    12. "Posting constantly on social media, particularly about insignificant things like what you ate for breakfast."


    A plate of french toast topped with fresh strawberries and whipped cream

    13. "When they open their mouth, and nothing good comes out of it."


    14. "Boring personality and no sense of humor."


    15. "Poor hygiene."


    "Bad smells. I can be open-minded in a lot of things, but that's something I can't get over."


    A person who smells standing inside an elevator with several disgusted people

    16. "Thinking smoking weed is a personality trait."


    17. And finally, "People who leave grocery carts next to their cars instead of putting them in the corral. Schmucks."


    An empty grocery cart in the middle of a parking spot

    In your opinion, what drops someone from a 10 to a 5? Sound off in the comments below!

    Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.