From an interview with Entertainment Weekly. Read it and die:
"Ben and I call each other hubby and wife. I've known Ben since I was 12-years-old. Eighteen years of my life I've known Ben, and for all of those years he's been lumped together with me as being my partner in crime, my husband. The same for Ben, he doesn't go anywhere without people asking about Topanga and I don't go anywhere without people asking about Cory. There is definitely a part of me that feels like Ben will always be my first husband. That's just the relationship we have. You know we're very close. We talk very openly. I think we share a lot of similar characteristics to a couple that's been together for a long time. We know each other so incredibly well and we love each other and it's just the best."