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If Your Partner Does 30 Of These 46 Things, It Might Be Time To Rethink Your Relationship

If they blame you for all your fights, forget your birthday, and never text first, you might want to take this quiz.

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    They leave your messages as "read" for more than a couple hours.
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    They leave your messages as "read" for over a day or more.
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    They cancel plans with you all the time.
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    You fight at least once a week.
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    You fight at least once a day.
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    They look for any pretext not to see you.
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    They have broken up with you more than twice.
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    They have broken up with you more than 10 times.
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    They disagree with you about marriage.
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    They disagree with you on the idea of having kids.
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    They make you feel like you're to blame for all your fights.
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    They are selfish when it comes to sex.
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    They avoid kissing you.
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    They avoid having sex with you.
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    In fact, you almost never have sex.
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    Your friends tell you that you should break up.
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    So does your family.
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    They no longer pay attention to you.
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    They can get very jealous.
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    They avoid conversations about your future together.
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    They tell you all the time how much they miss being single.
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    They compare you with their exes.
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    They criticize everything about you.
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    They do not give you compliments anymore.
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    They criticize your habits (whistling, loud chewing, etc.) that went unnoticed before.
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    They try to control who you hang out with.
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    They try to control the way you dress.
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    They disregard your achievements.
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    They always make plans that don't include you.
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    They do not tell you anything about their life.
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    They do not ask you anything about yours.
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    They recriminate you for things that happened a long time ago.
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    They blame you for all your fights.
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    They never text or call first, but you always do.
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    They prefer to be anywhere else but by your side.
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    They do not want to introduce you to their family.
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    They don't support your plans.
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    You each have very different and contradictory goals.
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    They say that they would like to break up with you, but can't.
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    They are clearly trying to make you break up with them.
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    They only hang out with you when you contact them.
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    They never do anything nice for you.
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    They forget your birthday.
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    They do not go to events that are important to you (graduations, parties, presentations, etc.).
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    They do not invite you to their events either.
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    And they do not tell you that they love you as often.

UPDATE

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This post was translated from Spanish.

 
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