Community·Posted on Jul 29, 2019We Want To Hear The Things You Wish People Understood About InfertilityYou're not alone, but sometimes it feels that way.by Mike SpohrBuzzFeed StaffFacebookPinterestTwitterMailLink When you’re struggling with infertility, it can be lonely — and feel like (most) people don’t understand what you’re going through. Engin akyurt from Pixabay There are things you wish people got, like just how heartbreaking it can be. Aimee Murphy @RehumanizeAimee In case anyone was wondering, infertility sucks, and I'm still not good at Offering It Up. 7 years in, and still have Really Bad Days when the grief is just Too Much. 11:45 PM - 18 Jul 2019 Reply Retweet Favorite You might wish people understood that men can suffer through the struggle as much as their partner. Jowanna Daley from Pixabay Maybe you wish people didn’t feel the need to cheerlead so much: “It’s going to happen for you! I know it!” Pixabay Or maybe you wish your friends understood that it can be difficult for you to see them pregnant. Caitlyn ッ @CaitlynMauger Being happy for your infertile friends when they finally get pregnant but the overwhelming feeling of grief and jealousy is becoming very hard to hide. 02:07 PM - 06 Jun 2019 Reply Retweet Favorite Whatever it is you wish people understood about infertility, we want to hear it. Share it in the comments below and it could appear in a future BuzzFeed post.