19 Specific Qualities That Instantly Make A Person Attractive, And I'm Curious To See If You Agree With This List

    Sometimes the smallest things make the biggest difference.

    When it comes to dating and meeting new friends, there's always one thing that tends to catch your eye first when you initially meet someone.

    The House Bunny

    When Reddit user u/Indieriots asked, "What quality immediately makes a person attractive?" the online community wasn't shy about chiming in.

    I've rounded up the most memorable answers to the thread. Take a look and see if you agree with these responses:

    1. "When they make you feel safe to be around and naturally help your mental health."

    Lilo & Stitch

    2. "Showing interest in someone. Asking questions, and not making it about YOU. Remembering small details about previous conversations and following up on them later."

    Legally Blonde

    3. "The ability to listen without judging or assuming."

    Romy and Michele's High School Reunion

    4. "When they keep quiet about their good deeds. Is there anything more attractive than seeing someone quietly smile at someone else's joy, knowing they helped but got no credit? That kind of selfless kindness is the best."

    Monsters University

    5. "A friendly personality. People who just treat everyone kindly are much more attractive."

    The Wedding Singer

    6. "Common sense. Some days it's impossible to find."

    American Pie 2

    7. "A great, infectious laugh."

    8. "The ability to speak eloquently and hold a conversation."

    The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants

    9. "Being respectful."

    10. "When you can tell they actually care about you and love you."

    The Simpsons

    11. "Pure confidence."

    Easy A

    12. "The ability to enjoy quietness."

    13. "The ability to make me laugh."

    I Love You, Man

    14. "Humbleness."

    The Good Place

    15. "Kindness and healthy curiosity."

    16. "Being able to dance by themselves and still have a great time."

    17. "Looking me in the eyes as if I'm saying something worth listening to."

    A Walk to Remember

    18. "Being able to take accountability."

    19. "At this point, I'm old enough to appreciate when someone has their s--t together."

    What quality would you add to this list? Let us know in the comments!

    Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.