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    34 Valentine's Day Gifts For Couples Who've Been Together So Long That They've Run Out Of Gifts To Get Each Other

    Turns out it is possible to find a gift that you haven't given before and that doesn't suck.

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    1. A Tushy bidet attachment if you've been with your S.O. so long that you know all their ~dirty~ secrets — including that they don't wipe well. This'll leave them with a cleaner crack and help y'all reduce the amount of TP you use. Plus it has the added benefit of water temperature control, meaning you can control how warm or cold the spray is.

    2. A scratch-off world map for the couple that's always exploring. At this point in your relationship, you have plenty of past adventures to scratch off as you wait for future ones.

    The map zoomed in on the state of California, which is scratched off

    3. A 100 Things To Do scratch-off bucket list so your plans no longer consist of the following exchange: "What do you want to do this weekend?" followed by "IDK, what do you want to do this weekend?"

    The board with some squares scratched off to reveal a cute image underneath

    4. A popcorn popper to come in handy as they curl up on the couch for their annual Pride & Prejudice (the 2005 version, duh!) screening. 

    hand pouring popcorn kernels into the glass container
    the same glass container, which looks like a coffee pot, filled with popped popcorn

    Promising review: "My 4-year-old daughter and I love popcorn. I was considering buying an air popper that you plug in but I am so glad I got this instead. It is easy to use, works great, easy to clean and store. I fill the little cup on top with seeds, pour them in the container, and heat for two minutes. That makes enough for one person. My daughter loves helping me do this and she loves seeing the finished popcorn after we take it out of the microwave. Cleans great in the dishwasher. There is usually some seeds left that didn't pop, but I think that's normal for most popcorn makers." —lost22

    Shipping Info: Expedited shipping options are available for an additional fee.

    Get it from BuzzFeed's Tasty collection at Walmart for $9.77.

    5. A scratch-off Valentine's Day card that'll hide your mushy message and remind them of the Etch A Sketch they were obsessed with as a kid.

    square valentine's day cards that look like etch-a-sketches

    6. Or a set of long-distance relationship envelopes and notes because you're always thinking of them even if you can't be together for the holiday. You can choose the prompts you'd like on the card or opt for the most popular messages.

    seven cards in brown envelopes with messages that say
    Paper Planes Co.

    Paper Planes Co. is a Kentucky-based small biz.

    Promising review: "These cards are GORGEOUS! Great customer service as well! I can’t wait to give them to my boyfriend and surprise him with it 🥰" —Chloe Blunk

    Shipping Info: Processing takes 2–5 business days. Orders ship from Kentucky so delivery time depends on your location.

    Get five cards and envelopes from Paper Planes Co. on Etsy for $15.07 (available in larger packs).

    7. A pair of cat parent mugs if you're both unabashed owners of the most perfect fur baby. Even if your mug collection is overflowing, these are the two you'll both grab each morning.

    Two white mugs with a cartoon cat that say best cat mom ever and best cat dad ever

    8. A mystery box of cat hats for the feline fans whose relationship has progressed so swimmingly that they've added a furry friend to the family.

    Cat wearing an orca hat
    Cat wearing an axolotl hat
    Cat wearing a banana hat

    Promising review: "Cat hats are truly a godsend. There is nothing more adorable or silly than accessorizing your little furry friend with such captivating head pieces. Though I was hoping for the crab, the axolotl was probably the best one. I truly loved this product and had a blast with it. Unfortunately, Kitty probably didn't share my enthusiasm or joy upon wearing the hood, though she was a good sport." —Piiku

    Shipping Info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will arrive by Valentine's Day.

    Get them from Amazon: the aquatic box for $7.99 or the fruit box for $7.99.

    9. A box of 100 conversation starters so you never stop learning new things about your S.O. But don't toss out the deck once you've gone through it; revisit it in a little bit and you may be surprised how your answers change.

    Reviewer photo of some of the cards, which include questions like "What are you too hard on yourself for?" and "What five things do you enjoy doing with me?"

    10. Or a set of 150 questions inspired by the Love Language test to deepen your connection even after all this time together.

    The deck, which includes questions like "If you could travel back in time for one day, what year would it be and why?" and "If we as a couple had a theme song what would it be?"

    11. A dual-zone comforter that'll keep the peace in the literal and figurative marital bed. Y'all have been together long enough yet you're still fighting over someone hogging the blankets or turning on the AC overnight even though it's 40 degrees outside? Rookie move!

    The duvet showing one half is warm and the other is cool

    12. A TikTok-famous 1,000-piece puzzle from The Magic Puzzle Company because it brings an element of surprise and excitement you've never experienced with other puzzles — or other partners! Not only is the illustration so beautiful that you'll probably glue and frame it when it's completed, but it also features 50 Easter eggs throughout *and* a magical twist that reveals itself once the puzzle is finished.

    close-up of a section of the puzzle showing its whimsical illustration style

    13. And a handy puzzle board if you and your partner are big on puzzles but small on space. It folds up neatly so you can start a puzzle in the living room and finish it in the kitchen, and is large enough to hold a 1,500-piece puzzle.

    The wooden board

    Promising review: "My husband and I recently purchased this as a Christmas gift for ourselves! During the winter we puzzle in place of gardening! We just finished a 1,000-piece puzzle on it and loved it! The drawers slide right out for sorting and the puzzle table is easily moved. A great gift for retired folks!" —Karen G.

    Shipping Info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will arrive by Christmas (see Amazon’s full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $64.99.

    14. A tarot seed packet for the folks who want to try co-parenting but don't want the added pressure of 3 a.m. feeds and trying to save enough money to put a child through college. Why not try plants?

    a seed packet with an illustration of hands making a heart that's inspired by the lovers tarot card

    15. A heated back and neck massager so you both finally stop complaining about aches and pains. Let's face it, you love each other but you're way past the stage of wanting to give each other 30-minute massages. Good thing this lil' guy will do it without requiring that you give them a massage in return.

    16. The Adventure Challenge: Couples Edition — a book of scratch-off dates to add some spontaneity to your long-term relationship. Each activity is a surprise until you scratch it off. You'll also get an instant camera so you can snap a pic of all the fun you have during each challenge.

    The book with a photo of a happy couple

    17. An incredibly practical and oh so luxurious faux fur throw blanket that'll keep 'em nice and cozy during movie nights, in the car, in bed, at breakfast, in the shower...OK maybe not that last one. If your S.O. is always cold (even though the thermostat says 78 degrees), you need this.

    18. A pound of cereal marshmallows, because as much as you love them, you've tolerated them eating the marshmallows from your box of Lucky Charms for far, far, far too long.

    Promising review: "Buying these charms was one of the best decisions of my life. The bag is twice the size of my head. The marshmallows are aesthetically pleasing and delicious. It's everything I ever wanted in a snack." —Amazon Customer

    Shipping Info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will arrive by Valentine's Day.

    Get it from Amazon for $12.98.

    19. A variety pack of Partake cookies if y'all have bonded over your shared basically everything. Well, it's your lucky day! Common allergens like peanuts, eggs, dairy, soy, tree nuts, and more are not on the ingredient list of these delicious cookies!

    four boxes of cookies in different flavors: double chocolate, birthday cake, ginger snap, and chocolate chip

    20. An art kit for helping you both tap into your creative (and maybe freaky?) side to create a tangible piece of art whose origins will be your dirty little secret.

    A black and white abstract painting made with the kit

    21. A fill-in-the-blank book so you can spell out all the reasons you love your significant when they leave you little presents around the apartment, aka dirty cups and dishes. OK, maybe not that...

    The book cover

    22. A one-year couples journal to kickstart fun, meaningful conversations like the ones you had during the early days of your relationship. Or, a Q&A-a-day three-year journal for couples in a more time-tested relationship who want to create a time capsule of their lives together.

    23. A two-pack of Tile Bluetooth trackers that'll put a stop to your partner's most-asked question: "Honey, can you call my phone?" Good thing they'll never need help ~finding~ all the reasons they love you.

    the black square tracker on a keychain

    24. A Drinking Animals Coloring Book or a Jason Momoa coloring book because there's no better way to take the edge off than with coloring, a cocktail recipe, and fantasies of Aquaman.

    25. An AllTrails Pro subscription if your other half is always itching to go explore the great outdoors. AllTrails is a free service that helps you find the perfect route for your hike, bike ride, family stroll, or trail run. The Pro subscription allows you to download the maps so you can stick to your route even if you don't have service — a nice plus if you're adventuring somewhere that's out of cellphone range.

    Person walking on a trail

    26. A hugging candle for the partner who has a soft spot for adorable candles that are just too cute to burn.

    the candle in different colors
    CaiCai Handmade / Etsy

    CaiCai Handmade is a small business based in Katy, Texas.

    Promising review: "So adorable, great size! Fragrance is beautiful and very strong. I really like how strong the fragrance is, personally, because I can enjoy the candle without burning and ruining it if I decide to keep it for decor. Really great candle! Excellent quality!" —Jennifer Hoffmann

    Shipping Info: Processing takes 3–5 business days. Orders ship from Texas so delivery time depends on your location.

    Get it from CaiCai Handmade on Etsy for $22.50+ (available in a variety of colors and scents and with or without special Valentine's Day packaging).

    27. A Japanese A5 Wagyu ribeye so you can treat yourselves to — and I mean this in all seriousness — the best steak of your lives. TBQH, you may actually regret gifting this and not keeping it totally for yourself because it is that good.

    raw Kobe Ribeye Steak Japanese A5 Wagyu
    Holy Grail

    I tasted a similar cut of A5 Wagyu from Holy Grail and it was mind-blowingly delicious and has truly ruined all other steak for me. It's so incredibly tender and the melt-in-your-mouth description that you often hear from people talking about Japanese Wagyu is actually spot-on. The experience of eating such a luxurious cut of meat — which honestly tastes good just on its own, no accoutrements necessary — is one you'll definitely want to share with someone else so you can spend the rest of your lives talking about how good the steak was. I know I still am!

    Shipping Info: All orders take 1–3 business days to process and arrive. Expedited overnight shipping is available for an additional cost.

    Get it from Holy Grail Steak Co. for $349. This is available for pre-order (you can select your ship date at checkout; orders are expected to begin shipping on Feb. 8, meaning they should arrive in time for Valentine's Day). 

    28. An Amazon Fire TV Stick 4K to bring y'all thousands — literally thousands — of streaming channels, movies, and shows, as well as live TV, news, and sports. The one nice thing about long-term relationships is that you both appreciate just sitting quietly and watching a show together.

    infographic showing the remote and streaming services its compatible with

    29. A teeth-whitening pen that'll brighten and whiten without irritation of whitening strips that slip and slide. ONLY gift them this if they've literally said, "Please buy this for me." (Because now is not the time to surprise your partner and them think that you think their teeth are yellow.)

    Reviewer before and after showing the pen noticeably whitened their yellow teeth

    30. The new AirPods Pro because you've been together long enough to understand that you really do love each other but if you so much as hear them breathe you're going to scream. These'll help block out the noise with the sound of your favorite tunes.

    Promising review: "I have purchased every generation of AirPods. When I first read the reviews here, before purchasing these AirPods, I thought people were perhaps exaggerating a bit. But after having them for two days, what they say is absolutely true. The sound is amazing. Light years better than the AirPods Pro 1. It’s hard to believe that the richness of sound and bass can actually be produced by these small speakers. The noise cancellation feature is outstanding; in fact, when I took them out of my ears, and was hit with the onslaught of actual live sound around me, I realized just how effective the noise filtration is. They’re comfortable, fit great in my ears, especially with the choices of circular ear pads that are included, and the battery life is so much better than the previous generation. Love these guys. Very satisfying purchase." —M. SHAPIRO

    Shipping Info: Available on Amazon Prime with 2-day shipping, non-Prime shipping options will arrive by Valentine's Day.

    Get them from Amazon for $239.99.

    31. A 7-in-1 Instant Pot if you want to give them two gifts in one. This time-saving device will deliver your dinner in minutes when it used to take hours, giving you more time to spend with each other. Awww!

    The Instant Pot

    32. A screaming goat who sits on a tree stump and shrieks whenever you touch it (honestly, same) for the partner who still appreciates a gag gift.

    The screaming goat and a mini booklet of screaming goats

    33. The Wand, a practical mini handheld filter so y'all can enjoy a bottle of wine together. This lil' guy is designed to remove the histamines and sulfites in alcohol that may trigger headaches and hangovers. It's also supposed to revive oxidized wine so you don't have to toss an open bottle.

    The wand

    34. A bleach-free, no-scrub weekly shower spray to make soap scum and shower grime buildup go bye bye without you ever having to wipe. If the only thing y'all fight about is whose turn it is to clean the shower, this is a surprisingly great gift. Rinse it clean the next day, and you'll be amazed to see those hard water stains on your shower door are *poof* gone. And maybe get 'em something a bit more fun too just in case!

    Before: a dirty shower floor; after: the clean shower floor

    Live footage of y'all exchanging gifts on February 14: