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47 Gifts For Couples Who've Been Together So Long That They've Run Out Of Gifts To Get Each Other

This year they'll really mean it when they tell you, "I love it."

What a year! The holidays are finally here! And while we’re doing our best to make sure the products we feature will arrive in time, shipping times are especially tricky this year, so we suggest shopping as early as you can.

Stock and shipping times can vary depending on where you live, which product you purchase, and more. So order earlier than you think you need to and be sure to double-check the retailers’ websites for shipping information to ensure that your gift will arrive in time for when you need it.

1. A Tushy bidet attachment if you've been with your S.O. so long that you know all their ~dirty~ secrets — including that they don't wipe well. This'll leave them with a cleaner crack and help y'all reduce the amount of TP you use. Plus it has the added benefit of water temperature control, meaning you can control how warm or cold the spray is.

2. A scratch-off world map for the couple that's always exploring. You can even scratch off all your past adventures...and at this point in your relationship, there are a lot of them.

The map zoomed in on the state of California, which is scratched off

3. A 100 Things To Do scratch-off bucket list so your plans no longer consist of the following exchange: "What do you want to do this weekend?" followed by, "IDK, what do you want to do this weekend?"

The board with some squares scratched off to reveal a cute image underneath

4. A soft muslin blanket to keep you both warm and cozy while cuddling without causing you to soak your sheets with sweat.

gray waffle muslin blanket draped on the end of a bed

5. A National Geographic geode kit that'll make for a ~smashing~ gift. Now hand them those goggles, please!

6. A Piquant Post subscription if you wanna ~spice~ up dinner with a box of three to four hand-selected spice blends from a specific country or region *and* curated recipes with shopping lists and in-depth instructions that highlight each spice's unique flavor.

spice packets laid out along with recipe cards

7. A Carhartt hoodie for the couple who shares clothes. One of the best things about dating your S.O. is that your closet is theirs and their closet is yours.

model wearing green-blue speckled hoodie that says carhartt in orange on the side of the arm

8. Or a set of 150 questions inspired by the Love Language test to deepen your connection even after all this time together.

The deck, which includes questions like "If you could travel back in time for one day, what year would it be and why?" and "If we as a couple had a theme song what would it be?"

9. A Japanese A5 Wagyu ribeye steak because your partner thinks they've had good steaks but trust me, they haven't had an amazing steak until they've tasted A5 Wagyu. TBQH, you may actually regret gifting this and not keeping it totally for yourself because it is that good.

The 16-ounce steak on a cutting board

10. A fill-in-the-blank book so you can spell out all the reasons you love your significant when they leave you little presents around the apartment, aka dirty cups and dishes. OK, maybe not that...

The book cover

11. A practical and stylish pair of rectangular glasses that'll actually be much appreciated if your partner is -6.00 in both eyes. The gift of being able to see? Totally underrated.

model wearing the amber-colored frames

12. A dual-zone comforter that'll keep the peace in the literal and figurative marital bed. Y'all have been together long enough yet you're still fighting over someone hogging the blankets or turning on the AC overnight even though it's 40 degrees outside? Rookie move!

The duvet showing one half is warm and the other is cool

13. A 2022 Bubble Wrap calendar, because even though you've been together forever and gotten each other everything, you shouldn't underestimate the daily thrill of popping each bubble.

the calendar on a wall with each day being a bubble you pop

14. A self-emptying robot vacuum with smart path navigation for the couple that gets along perfectly until the question of who's gonna vacuum arises. If you both hate brooms and vacuums with a burning passion, treat yourselves to a robovac.

the black robot vacuum moving from wood to carpet

15. The Adventure Challenge: Couples Edition — a book of scratch-off dates to add some spontaneity to your long-term relationship. Each activity is a surprise until you scratch it off. You'll also get an instant camera so you can snap a pic of all the fun you have during each challenge.

The book with a photo of a happy couple

16. A handy puzzle board if you and your partner are big on puzzles but small on space. It has four drawers to store puzzle pieces and provides a large enough flat surface to put together a 1,500-piece puzzle.

The wooden board

17. A pound of cereal marshmallows, because as much as you love them, you've tolerated them eating the marshmallows from your box of Lucky Charms for far, far, far too long.

Reviewer with the bag of cereal marshmallows

18. And a 500-piece puzzle for christening your new board.

the puzzle box, which shows the design: an illustration of the night sky and constellations

19. A Jeopardy 2022 daily calendar (RIP Alex Trebek) for testing your trivia-loving other half's knowledge (and yours too!). Alex, what is "the best gift ever?"

question for february 4 2022 that asks "blank in a product from V8, it follows the words 'bloody mary'"

20. A 16-piece cookware set for the lovebirds whose current set of mismatched pots and pans left over from college are totally banged up and on their last legs.

the colorful cookware set

21. A four-flavor popcorn tin that'll keep your mouth busy while your eyes are glued to the TV screen. At this point everyone and their mother has told you to watch Ted Lasso so grab your partner, grab this tin, and grab your remote.

white popcorn tin with plaid christmas trees on it and four different kinds of popcorn in it

22. A customizable care package that'll bring a tear to their eye when they see you picked all their favorite things: Sriracha cheddar popcorn, snickerchurro cookies 🤤, a sheet mask, and a lavender-scented candle. Happy Box allows you to create your own box so you can send all or none of the products I just mentioned. And they'll even handwrite your card so the gift feels extra special.

A gift box open with a lip balm, candle, chocolate bar, another candle, and gummies inside

23. A box of Wolferman's cinnamon rolls if you firmly believe (and you would be 100% correct) that the best thing about Christmas morning is (in this exact order) 1) sleeping in, 2) opening gifts, and 3) eating cinnamon rolls.

five cinnamon rolls cooling on a baking tray and one cinnamon roll on a plate

24. An art kit for helping you both tap into your creative (and maybe freaky?) side to create a tangible piece of art whose origins will be your dirty little secret.

A black and white abstract painting made with the kit

25. A Hot N Saucy hot sauce trio so meats, sides, and snacks will never be boring again. And you could probably say the same for your relationship too since you've been dating.

26. A Flaviar membership if the two of ya enjoy a post-work adult bevvy. They (and you if you live together) will receive premium spirits you may not see on your local bar hops or at the liquor store. Cheers to that!

bottle of Ardbeg traigh bhan single malt scotch whisky

27. A cat parent mug for the unabashed owners of the most perfect fur baby. Even if your mug collection is overflowing, these are the two you'll both grab each morning.

White mugs with a cartoon cat giving two middle fingers with text on image that says best cat dad ever

28. A stunning and versatile leather studio bag to replace the stained canvas tote they've used for the past three years. They'll love how roomy it is (there's an interior and exterior pocket, as well as space to fit a laptop!) and you'll love that it can also hold your glasses and water bottle. A win-win!

29. A hip-hop card deck I can guarantee they don't have yet. Whether you both like to play cards or you both appreciate hip-hop and art, you'll love seeing your favorite artists like Nas, Foxy Brown, Snoop Dog, Biggie Smalls, Lil' Kim, Tupac, and more reimagined as kings, queens, and jokers.

the deck of cards with Nas as the king

30. A gold seal ring because — in the wise words of Beyoncé — if you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it.

hand wearing a gold ring with a black seal on it

31. A 7-in-1 Instant Pot if you want to give them two gifts in one. This time-saving device will deliver you dinner in minutes when it used to take hours, giving you more time to spend with each other. Awww!

The Instant Pot

32. A mystery box of cat hats for the feline fans whose relationship has progressed so swimmingly that they've added a furry friend to the family.

Cat wearing a banana hat

33. A pair of fleece-lined joggers so your perpetually cold S.O. can walk around the house without needing to wear approximately 20 layers of clothing.

34. A Chi automatic curling iron to save your accident-prone partner's fingers from curling iron burns. All they have to do is insert their hair into the chamber and the curler will automatically wrap it around the heated rod. Then they wait until it beeps to let them know that the curl has set.

35. A Bartesian that'll make you a craft cocktail with the alcohol of your choice at the push of a button. Your S.O. has many skills but making a good spicy marg is not one of them. Thank goodness this lil' guy — which is like a Nespresso for cocktails — can do it for you.

The Bartesian pouring a margarita in a low ball glass.

36. A stove-top pizza oven because Wednesday night pizzas are a tradition in your relationship, and you can make restaurant-quality pies on your gas stove!

a pizza cooking in the pizza oven, which is sitting on a gas burner

37. A bright-blue floral bra and panty set that'll elicit an actual "OMG" and lead to a subsequent fashion show after they open it. 🥵

Model wearing bright blue lace floral panty and bra set
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38. An AllTrails Pro subscription if your other half is always itching to go explore the great outdoors. AllTrails is a free service that helps you find the perfect route for your hike, bike ride, family stroll, or trail run. The Pro subscription allows you to download the maps so you can stick to your route even if you don't have service — a nice plus if you're adventuring somewhere that's out of cellphone range.

Person walking on a trail

39. A ~paw-fect~ kitty cross-body bag if your S.O. is a little cat obsessed. This ~purr-se~ is made from American Saffiano leather and offers lots of interior space. And the shoulder strap is adjustable so they can use the bag as a pouch, as a shoulder bag (if they shorten the strap), or as a regular cross-body bag.

40. A "Mates for Life" print for the person you've chosen as your mate...for life.

The print, which features sketches of animals that mate for life

41. A heated back and neck massager so you both finally stop complaining about aches and pains. Let's face it, you love each other but you're way past the stage of wanting to give each other 30-minute massages. Good thing this lil' guy will do it without requiring that you give them a massage in return.

42. The Wand, a practical mini handheld filter so y'all can enjoy a bottle of wine together. This lil guy is designed to remove the histamines and sulfites in alcohol that may trigger headaches and hangovers. It's also supposed to revive oxidized wine so you don't have to toss an open bottle.

The wand

43. Some Apple AirPods because you've been together long enough to understand that you really do love each other but if you so much as hear them breathe you're going to scream. These'll help block out the noise with the sound of your favorite tunes.

The AirPods

44. A screaming goat who sits on a tree stump and shrieks whenever you touch it (honestly, same) for the partner who still appreciates a gag gift.

The screaming goat and a mini booklet of screaming goats

45. A one-year couples journal so you can kickstart fun, meaningful conversations like the ones you had during the early days of your relationship. Or, a Q&A-a-day three-year journal for couples in a more time-tested relationship who want to create a time capsule of their lives together.

46. A two-pack of Tile Bluetooth trackers to put a stop to your partner's most-asked question: "Honey, can you call my phone?" Good thing they'll never need help ~finding~ all the reasons they love you.