I was nervous as hell, having almost gone in and run away a dozen times before, then I finally forced myself to have a drink like I would any other bar. Immediately I talked with this amazing guy and we hit it off. He bought me drinks and we had fun. After about half an hour he got up, shook my hand and told me his girlfriend was finished dancing. He was straight and just liked to hang out at gay bars. I sighed. Of course I actually found a straight guy my first time in a gay bar.