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    39 Gifts For Your Significant Other That Are Secretly For You, Too

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    1. A question per day journal with lines for both you and your SO, leading to interesting discussion on topics like "Where would you like to travel together?", "What does your partner's laugh sound like?" and "What's the softest thing you're wearing today?"

    2. An Amazon Echo Dot that'll be a a time- and space-saving way to settle all your arguments (and prove you're right, of course).

    3. A contoured memory foam pillow designed to keep snorers in a ~quieter~ sleeping position — helping them (and you, duh) sleep better every night.

    The curved pillow with five stars and text "this pillow may have saved my marriage!"

    4. A bottle of odor-busting Poo-Pourri, because their deuces make you want to say ✌️ to your home for the rest of the day.

    Two bottles of original citrus poopourri on the toilet

    5. A subscription to Shaker and Spoon, a monthly box delivered right to your door to bring you all the ingredients you need to whip up three tasty cocktail recipes each month. You both need a good happy hour in 2020.

    An example box with lemons and lives, mixers, and recipe cards

    6. A shrunk-down tabletop game to make your home feel like a date night out to an arcade. Love means never having to leave the house to play air hockey.

    A hand playing the mini game

    7. A velvety matte liquid lipstick that'll never transfer onto your skin, whether they're pecking you on the cheek or opting for an entire makeout sesh.

    Lips with different skin tones all wearing the red lipstick

    8. An all natural beard balm made with vegan, organic ingredients like argan and avocado oils, plus shea butter and aloe to nourish skin and soften coarse hairs. You're tired of their beard being the scratchiest!

    9. An Amazon Fire TV stick you can simply plug into your existing TV and stream all the shows, movies, and music you want. Enjoy it with your partner for an at-home date night, or by yourself when you simply can't wait for them to watch that next episode of Riverdale.

    The HDMI stick and remote

    10. A suggestive mug that, when they use it on a Saturday morning, will inadvertently trick them into inviting you to do your favorite activity.

    the mug that says "true crime & chill"

    11. Read This if You Want to Take Great Photographs, a useful and pretty photography guide so they can develop their burgeoning interest... and also so they'll take pics guaranteed to up your 'gram followers.

    The book

    12. A sampler kit of aperitifs so they'll make *both* of you a happy hour drink on a regular basis. These are perfect for sipping on the rocks or making into cocktails or spritzes, because everyday bubbly celebrations are a gift unto themselves.

    The four bottles

    13. A Hello Fresh gift subscription, because they've expressed an interest in learning to cook, but you're expressed NO interest in tasting their weird experiments.

    The recipe card and completed steak and couscous dinner

    14. A beautiful blank genealogy chart so you can trace your family trees together for display on your wall.

    15. A pair of stylish slim-fit joggers if you're tired of seeing them in those ratty, holes-everywhere sweatpants. Now you won't be embarrassed to be seen with them on last-minute grocery runs.

    16. A scratch off map of the world you can fill out to encourage future trips together. Any place that's still gold? Plan a vacation! Plus it comes with a separate U.S. map for scratching off individual states.

    A family scratching off the gold map on a black background

    17. A stovetop espresso maker that'll brew two cups at once — meaning they basically have no excuse not to make one for you at the same time.

    The green pot with two espresso cups

    18. Or a half-gallon cold brew maker, because mornings will go much more smoothly when there's enough delicious iced coffee to go around. Just twist the lid and pour — and be on your way.

    The three steps for making cold brew: fill with grounds, brew, then enjoy

    19. A Prime membership to give the gift of free two-day shipping, streaming movies, TV, and music, exclusive products and deals, and a selection of Kindle e-books. It's not like you're going to use it too.... or will you?

    The Prime Membership banner

    20. A super slim Anker portable battery with two USB ports so ~both~ of your devices can be charging at the same time. Oh, and by the way, it has over 32,000 FIVE-STAR REVIEWS!

    The charging capacities

    21. A three-inch memory foam mattress topper so *your* sleep will never be interrupted when *they* toss and turn. Maybe a mattress topper seems like a weird present, but honestly the gift of a good night's sleep is the best gift of all.

    The swirly blue topper on a bed

    22. A Kindle Paperwhite (discounted for Cyber Week!) with a glare-free backlit screen that looks like an actual book page, so they won't keep you up when they can't put their book down. Turn the lamp off, once and for all!

    The glare-free tablet

    23. Or a hands-free book light that'll simply hang around their neck and focus all the glow on the page — not on your sleeping face. Plus, they won't have to keep adjusting it from page to page, creating less noise.

    24. A hilarious yet useful cuddling pillow so they can feel the joy of being the little spoon... without your arm falling asleep.

    A model being spooned by the pillow shaped like a torso with an arm

    25. A nifty notepad perfect for sending little love letters to each other. You can fill out the top one when you give it to them — and the rest of the pad? Guess they'll be sent to you! 😍

    the "what I love about you" notepad with suggestions of what to say

    26. BuzzFeed Tasty Ultimate cookbook, a collection of 150 recipes, kitchen hacks, and the best techniques, because you've watched the videos like a bajillion times together, and you want them to cook one for you, dangit!

    The cover of the book

    27. Or an Instant Pot for whipping up press-the-button-and-watch-the-magic-happen dishes and meals — maybe they'll finally ~get cooking~ on all those recipes they have saved.

    28. A straight-up closet doubling hanging rack to help organize their stuff... and also give YOU significantly more closet room.

    The bar with shirts on hung below a closet rod

    29. A plush corgi they'll fall in love with so hard, they'll finally acquiesce to your wish to finally get a pupper of your own.

    30. A sushi-making kit so you can both save money by whipping up rolls at home rather than frequenting Seamless a little too often.

    31. A reversible sequin pillow you can run your hands over to reveal the hidden face beneath. Surprise your S.O. with a cute sequin pillow, and watch their face when they realize there's ~something else~ beneath. It's Keanu!

    The pillow in four photos showing the sequence from solid gold to keanu's face

    32. Queer Eye: Love Yourself. Love Your Life., so you can reap all the rewards of a Fab Five makeover, complete with tips and tricks & dos and don'ts for fashion, food, decor, style, and even self-branding help.

    The cover of the book

    33. A pair of Han and Leia pillowcases to express your love on the daily — with the added bonus of never getting your pillows mixed up again.

    The two pillowcases: one that says I love you with princess leia's hairstyle, the other with "I know" and a blaster

    34. A crepe-making set complete with 12-inch nonstick griddle, wooden spreader, and spatula to ensure the lightest, thinnest crepes outside of Paris.

    The round griddle with two wooden tools

    35. And a stylish tray with raised edges so those crepes can be delivered for breakfast in bed without making a big ole mess.

    The black tray with dessert, tea, and a laptop

    36. A Little Box of Date Nights with 60 cards of activities to ~spice up your life~ so you don't have to resort to "Idk, what do YOU want to do?"

    The box of cards

    37. A copy of the Llama Sutra that'll put the ~adult~ in "adult coloring." Talk about an 😉 activity book😉!

    The cover of the book

    38. A glass mug that'll really come in handy when one of you is deciding when to ask a favor early in the morning.

    The mug with lines marking the level of the coffee saying "shhhhh" "almost' and "now you may speak"

    39. An elegant cheese board with cracker slots, because your 2021 resolution is more wine-and-cheese dinners just for two — and this board miiiight just have enough room.

    The cheese board with suggested layout

    You, as you plan out your totally-selfless-no-skin-in-the-game present:

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