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The Agony Of Finding Your Soulmate As Told In Gifs

Because whatever souls are made of, his and mine are the same...

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Sure, it's all fun and games until you realise you have found the actual one...

Because you know... because everything is new and shit...

And really, what it looks and feels like is this:

But that was before you realised that the person you are dating with, might actually be the love of your life. Soulmate even, if you are lucky.

And ofcourse, that scares the living shit out of you, because you are aware of the fact that you thought this before...

And it turned out you were wrong...

And for some reason, the other person has a whole set of issues too...

And ouch; two strong personalities + issues + a lot of love = clash of the titans

And in relation to that, all the minor issues start to feel like this...

Or this...

Heck, even like this...

Bonus issue, you: got hurt / walked over / abandoned / pushed over / treated like shit / dealt with closed off immature people / had your heart broken / got cheated on / felt bad before, and you will never, ever allow that to happen again...

So this...

And at the core of it, you both feel exactly the same...

And one small gesture, could actually take away the other person's fear and vice versa.

But of course you don't...

Because you are you.. and "you" doesn't accept crap from anybody. Because changing is loosing, and loosing is failing.

But who are you failing anyway? Yourself? Maybe you are, but at some point you have to go "all in".

Because there always comes a certain point. That point where you realise that, when it comes down to it, it's both of you screaming the exact same thing

'Cause you are soulmates, and you know in your heart that you have met the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake.

And you come to the realisation that a soulmates' purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open and make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life

And that it's actually something you appreciate.. deep down, sort of... when no one is watching.. For you don't need anybody, and your life was fine before you met them and you are just as perfect as the next random citizen and you are perfectly capable of being the best version of yourself, without their help...

And that's when true teamwork kicks in

And everything seems to fall into place from there...

And of course, there will still be days when you disagree on things...

But they will never outshine the 99% of the time when you feel like this

So just to skip ahead..

and

for

Awwwwww!!

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