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My biggest green flag with my now husband was how he takes care of my grandma. My grand is now 92 and has dementia. She requires a lot of attention because she gets confused and upset very easily if she feels left out. When my husband and I first started dating, he was very respectful… Read More

As someone who has had a family member murdered, I'm terrified that some podcast is going to bring attention to it when my family and I are still grieving the horrific loss we've had to endure.

It was the summer before my first year of college. My best friends and I went to the beach for a weekend and we took some pictures and we did the hand sign for our university. I posted it on Instagram and got reposted by a page specifically for incoming freshmen of our school. Some… Read More

When I became a teacher there wasn’t a pandemic killing people going around. So no, I didn’t know that’s what my job would entail or that I’d have to teach both in person and virtual students at the same time.

I’m a HS teacher. I’m also part Japanese and it’s something my kids know because I have a small Japanese flag in my classroom. Before schools were closed, I’d have several students a day say remarks about how I have or would spread the virus. At first I would talk to those students… Read More

I’m half Mexican and half Japanese/white. I constantly get “you don’t look Japanese..” I’m sorry what do you want me to do show you my 23andme results that say I’m 30% Japanese??? I also have many people assume I speak Spanish or ask me to translate for them. I speak more Japanese… Read More

"I think I've made my decision, what about you?" "Yeah I think we're thinking of the same place" It's so painfully scripted, realistically the couples that go on there have had a conversation longer than two minutes ruling out houses and they never seem to disagree.

Rachel's horrible pregnancy belly, especially when part of it is sticking out from part of her shirt

I, for the life of me, cannot remember what I did this in retaliation for but when I was about 8/9 years old I hid my sisters tennis shoes under my bed. She made me mad and I put them under my bed, which by the way, needed to have the mattress lifted up to see underneath because my… Read More

It feels like someone is scooping out bits of my brain, always one specific area, with a spoon. This sometimes alternates with a sharp pain which I can only describe as someone stabbing my brain with a pencil. I can't handle even opening my eyes because it hurts too much. Even with… Read More