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Matilda the musical: even if you're little you can do a lot, you mustn't let a little thing like little stop you.

Having things in the right places helps - landfill and recycling bins in every room; cleaning sponge and spray behind the bathroom sink and another one on the kitchen counter (not the cupboard where it stops existing). The fridge door works as a whiteboard and I use it to list what's… Read More

My job isn't business casual. It's a pretty respected job that I went to grad school for and I'm happy with the salary. The dress code would have been at least business casual in the 60s and even the 90s but times change. I wouldn't wear short-shorts or yoga pants at work, but… Read More

I really, really hope we still have human customer service people, and that the job is elevated to the respect it deserves. I'd be willing to pay per consultation if it meant a well-trained, motivated human

I'm X-ennial. I have a vivid memory of a friend coming to school the day after she'd been into her dad's office and tried going on the internet. We were all very curious and asked her what it was like. I got the impression that it was something like a smaller version of Wikipedia… Read More

Glad to hear politeness is alive and well at least in some regions of the US... My brother lives in a state I won't name, but doesn't seem to be one of the areas people have commented about!

I got married! Our venue had been closed and just reopened for visits by the end February, so we were able get a Saturday in early July. Those few months passed in a blur but we had a lot of help and pulled off a day that was perfect for us, full of sunshine and queer joy. Obviously… Read More

Politeness culture. I'm British, so I say 'please' and 'sorry' a lot (e.g. probably two pleases to order drinks from a bar; sorry if you've had to step round where I'm sitting in a restaurant, stuff like that. It's normal here and while I'd be fine with a bit less, it would be rude… Read More

The toilets are completely full of water, like almost up to the brim, so that it splashes on you.

#19! A lot of women will be wet enough anyway by the time they're aroused. If not, they need lube and not a little bit of spit that will dry up in a minute or two. And I *definitely* am not turned on by having any part of my body be spat on!