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A Cop Bought A Struggling Dad A Car Seat Instead Of Slapping Him With A Ticket

"A citation or ticket is not always the solution to somebody’s problems."

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"Why isn't your daughter in a car seat?" Scaglione asked.

"I can't afford it," the officer recalled Dell saying.

"Ok I appreciate you being honest," said Scaglione.

He went back to his police car to enter Dell's information. Then he walked back to Dell's car window and asked him to step out of the car to talk with him privately.

Dell explained to Scaglione that he had garnishments out of his check and had to prioritize feeding his family over other needs like a car seat.

Dell expressed his gratitude in a Facebook post shared on the Westland Police Department's page, which has been shared over 5,600 times and garnered 11,000 reactions. / Via

Dell wrote that the two seemed like "best friends" walking through Walmart that day.

"It was like night and day," he wrote. "Walkin side by side with a white officer."

"Never judge a book by its cover," he wrote, adding that there are "some good guys left."

He said he was a teenage father who had a supportive family system to help him during tough financial situations, but it seemed to Scaglione that Dell didn't have that same type of support.

"A citation or ticket is not always the solution to somebody's problems," he said. "There are other routes we can take by using discretion as police officers to solve somebody's problem. That's the road I decided to go."

Leticia Miranda is a retail reporter for BuzzFeed News and is based in New York.

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