First, let's set the mood.
Babeland is a great store with multiple locations in New York City and one in Seattle. Started by women, their primary focus was to create a woman-friendly sex shop where women can safely explore their sexuality. (But don't worry boys, there are still plenty of great gifts in there for you, too.) This Bondage in a Box kit is $28 here.
6. Pinwheel
7. Feather Crop
8. Blindfold
11. Bondage Ropes
12. Bar Spreader
13. Ball Mouth Gag
Remember: The most important parts of BDSM are to be consensual, have fun and play safe!