Work the head and shaft with your mouth, but with your hand hold the shaft and use a rotating up/down motion (kind of like the flick of a wrist, but slowed down)…I hate to call it a twist, because that makes it sound painful, but kind of like that! Keeps you from having to engage the gag reflex, gives multiple types of sensation on him.
Did you forget the 60’s and how Richard Nixon offered no support for the civil rights movement while JFK not only paid for some of Dr. King’s legal fees but got the civil right act going in the first place? That’s what solidified the black flight from the Republican Party to the Democratic Party. The party of Lincoln hasn’t been the party of minorities in 50 years.