11 Ways I'm Embracing Self-Love This Valentine's Day Through My Love Language Of Touch

Living alone can be a struggle when you just want a cuddle.

Everyone expresses their love in different ways. For me, that's through my sense of touch. Some people give gifts. Other people appreciate words of affirmation. But I'm definitely a hugger. I'm the kind of person who will give my close friends back rubs or braid their hair. So you could say that I thrive with physical affection.

However, I've been single for a hot minute. And because many of my friends aren't as touchy-feely as I am, it's been hard to get platonic hugs or other physical contact.

Fortunately, I've found several ways to fulfill my need for cuddles.

1. Weighted blankets

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A weighted blanket can feel like a fluffy embrace. I 10/10 would recommend.

2. Petsitting

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When you can't snuggle people, why not cuddle up to some animals?

3. Stuffed animals and plushies

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You're never too old to hug a stuffed animal.

4. Shoulder, back, and scalp massagers

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Massages are the perfect way to appeal to your sense of touch.

5. Heating pads

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One of my favorite things about cuddling up to someone else is the sense of warmth and safety. A nice heating pad or hot water bottle can provide a little bit of that comfort.

6. Trying out new hairstyles

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I dunno about you, but I turn to putty when people brush my hair. It's so soothing to have someone run their fingers through my hair or scratch my scalp. Combing and braiding my hair has become an important part of my self-care routine. When I watch my favorite show, I allow myself several minutes to enjoy the feeling of the bristles on my scalp.

7. Body pillows

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A body pillow can be a game-changer if you love to cuddle in bed.

8. Snuggly blankets

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Fluffy blankets are warm, they're soft, and they're perfect in every way. You can't convince me otherwise.

9. Warm tea

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Because I'm sensitive to sensations like touch, I also enjoy drinking a nice warm beverage. Drinking a cup of tea before bed feels like I'm giving my tummy a hug.

10. An adult swaddle or cozy hammock

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I've tried out an adult swaddle, and it feels like I'm a caterpillar in my own little cocoon.

11. And DIY spa nights

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Soothing face masks, exfoliants, and silky pajamas all feel great against my skin when I'm needing that extra physical stimulation.

What's your love language? Do you express your affection through touch, or do you prefer a more hands-off approach? Let us know in the comments below.