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Here's What It's Like To Go From Casual To Serious Dating

Inspired by these Whisper confessions.

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Finding someone you really like and click with is awesome.

But there's no denying the in-between of casually dating is confusing as hell.

Especially if you don't have a title.

Because dating is complicated — there are so many gray areas beyond just being single or in a relationship.

(Seriously, it's VERY complicated.)

Not to mention, all the game playing that goes on.

You want to tell them how much you like them, but you're nervous you'll just come on too strong.

And you get paranoid that your bae might be seeing someone else when they're not with you.

Which *technically* they'd be allowed to do if you haven't had *that* conversation yet.

You know, the dreaded, "What are we?" talk.

But you still don't feel good about them possibly dating around.

So you start asking yourself questions like, "Are we official?"

"Are we exclusive?"

And also, "What the hell is going on here?"

You don't know what to tell other people when they ask, "Is that your boyfriend/girlfriend?"

And are tired of getting your feelings hurt when it could all be avoided.

After all, love is supposed to be a good thing that makes you happy.

The last thing you want to do is seem crazy...

...But maybe it *is* time to bite the bullet and figure it out once and for all.

So, are we together or nah?

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