In his video, he explains, "I literally had to use my technique for this yesterday. This girl asked to get coffee and I'm not sure if she knows I'm gay or not, so I have to hit her with the 'Hey queen!'"
User @seanbarryparsons is a waiter who has what he calls "queer coded dining" to let girls know:
He talks about how if a woman's dress has pockets, he always compliments those pockets. If she's wearing a romper, he also compliments that because of all the effort that goes into wearing them. He smiles a lot and always offers to take pics for people. In addition, he tells old ladies they look like Hollywood starlets. Just watch the video, it is too good.
And @ayoaustimus let everyone know that showing others you're gay is a lot simpler than most people think:
Let's end this by reminding people that being gay looks different for everybody and you shouldn't have to "act" a certain way to let others know if you're gay or straight. Just don't assume someone's sexuality, OK?! To see more amazing videos by the gay men of TikTok, go here.
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