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This Stay-At-Home Mom Got In An Argument With Her Boyfriend About What She Does All Day, So She Recorded Herself, And Moms Everywhere Feel Vindicated

"Does your boss poop their pants and expect you to change it?"

Sierra and her boyfriend Giuseppe have two adorable kiddos together — Giulianna and Nicolai.

The couple standing outside dressed up in costumes and holding their kids

However, one day, they got into an argument. "Giuseppe made a comment about me not doing anything around the house while he worked. Once I thought about it, I realized so many other men out there have that same mentality," Sierra told BuzzFeed.

The couple on a boat

So, she decided to document what all she does and share it on TikTok:


I just want to feel appreciated... 😞 so many things I didn’t even record. Tik tok I am 22 stop taking this down for drinking .

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In a time-lapse video, Sierra shared how she did the dishes and laundry...

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Tended to each of the kids' different needs at any given moment...

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Did things like bathe them — and a whole lot more.

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She ended her video, saying, "Normally, I would be texting him asking what he wants for dinner, but tonight I'm just going to pour myself a drink and I just want to say a big fuck you to all the guys who don't appreciate their women."

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Sierra said that after her video blew up — with over 12 million views — she learned just how many people feel strongly about this topic. "I realized I was not alone and many moms experienced very similar feelings about this," she said.


And her video didn't even show the WHOLE day. "I started filming the video around 4 p.m., so there is a lot more I did earlier in the day that wasn't even shown in the video. A lot of prior cleanup, bottle making, diaper changing, food, art making, and more. My daughter is a sensory sealer, so our house has no shortness of messes," said Sierra.

She and Giuseppe did make up, and he apologized for what he said. "He has realized that what he said was wrong and realized how many things go on behind the scenes that can easily go unnoticed."

Sierra said the message is simple: "For people who still think stay-at-home moms have it easy, I would just like to your job, do you get thrown up on or screamed at for picking the wrong color cup? Does your boss poop their pants and expect you to change it? No? I rest my case. It isn’t easy."


You can follow Sierra on TikTok.