I was in a long term relationship and all throughout I never wanted kids. I just thought that was my life’s path- to be the Aunt. One day I realized it was because I was in a relationship with a child. He played video games for hours everyday, sometimes unemployed for months, I even had to remind him to brush his teeth. After ending that relationship, I fell in love with a MAN. He had his s*** together and did not rely on anyone but himself. I found that incredibly attractive. I am now due any day now with our first child. It was a decision we both made as adults and it all makes sense to us.