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Updated on Sep 2, 2020. Posted on Jul 15, 2015

19 Sex Etiquette Questions We Need Answered

NSFWish.

  1. 1. Are you obligated to cuddle after sex?

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1. Are you obligated to cuddle after sex?
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    Yes. It's rude not to.
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    No way. We did what we wanted to do, we don't need to touch after.
  1. 2. How soon is too soon to roll away and stop cuddling to sleep?

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2. How soon is too soon to roll away and stop cuddling to sleep?
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    Five minutes of cuddling then I want my own space.
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    I want to cuddle all night, dammit!
ABC
  1. 3. Is it rude to get up and turn the lights off before sex?

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3. Is it rude to get up and turn the lights off before sex?
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    Yes it is.
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    Nah. Lights off sets the mood more.
  1. 4. Should you wash your hands before fingering someone?

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4. Should you wash your hands before fingering someone?
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    Um, duh. I don't want dirty fingernails inside me.
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    Eh, who cares.
  1. 5. In a heterosexual relationship, do you let the girl use the bathroom after sex first?

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5. In a heterosexual relationship, do you let the girl use the bathroom after sex first?
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    Hell yeah the girl goes first. No one wants a UTI.
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    I mean, whoever gets there first.
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  1. 6. If your phone rings, can you interrupt to check it?

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6. If your phone rings, can you interrupt to check it?
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    HELL NO.
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    Yeah why not. We can pick right back up after they answer it.
  1. 7. Is it weird to put music on during a one-night-stand?

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7. Is it weird to put music on during a one-night-stand?
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    Hell no. I need music to set the mood.
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    Yeah, I don't want them to think I made a playlist to get laid to (even if I did).
  1. 8. Do you need to give the "courtesy tap" before cumming during oral sex?

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8. Do you need to give the "courtesy tap" before cumming during oral sex?
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    Nah, I don't want the moment interrupted.
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    Duh. What kind of monster doesn't give warning?
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  1. 9. Would you kiss your partner after receiving oral sex from them?

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9. Would you kiss your partner after receiving oral sex from them?
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    Yeah. It would be weird if they DIDN'T kiss me after.
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    Ew, no. That's nasty.
  1. 10. Would you try to kiss your partner after giving THEM oral sex?

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10. Would you try to kiss your partner after giving THEM oral sex?
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    Yeah. And that would be rude if they didn't want to kiss me.
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    Nah. Not right after.
  1. 11. Should you ask before cumming on someone's body/face?

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11. Should you ask before cumming on someone's body/face?
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    DUH. You can't just surprise someone with that.
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    No, you shouldn't. Whatever happens, happens.
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  1. 12. If you have your period you...

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12. If you have your period you...
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    Tell your partner before.
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    Cancel any sexy plans for that night.
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    Let them figure it out first-hand.
  1. 13. If you're on your period, is penetrative sex still on the table?

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13. If you're on your period, is penetrative sex still on the table?
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    No way. I'm not trying to make my bed look like a crime scene.
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    I love period sex. It feels so much better!
  1. 14. If your partner is on their period, is penetrative sex still on the table?

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14. If your partner is on their period, is penetrative sex still on the table?
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    Nah. I'd rather wait until it's not that time of the month.
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    I'm down to do it. If it feels good, who cares?
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  1. 15. If you're on your period, would you still ask for oral sex?

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15. If you're on your period, would you still ask for oral sex?
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    I definitely don't want oral sex. That's just a little too comfortable.
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    I'm down for it.
  1. 16. How long should you stay the morning after a one-night stand?

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16. How long should you stay the morning after a one-night stand?
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    Get the hell outta there immediately. Before the birds wake up, preferably.
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    You should at least have breakfast together.
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    Stay all day if it feels right, who cares.
  1. 17. If someone offers you money for a cab after sex, are you offended?

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17. If someone offers you money for a cab after sex, are you offended?
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    No. Thanks for saving me money!
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    Yes. I can pay for my own cab.
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  1. 18. Is it cool to sleep over after a one-night stand?

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18. Is it cool to sleep over after a one-night stand?
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    Yeah. Going home in the middle of the night is just depressing.
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    I hate sleeping over. I'd rather go home that night.
  1. 19. If you have a pet, do you allow them in the room while you and your partner are having sex?

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19. If you have a pet, do you allow them in the room while you and your partner are having sex?
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    Ew no. The last thing I want is my dog/cat watching.
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    Why not! They don't know what's going on.

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