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    • kimberlyw12

      Decker was my shadow and was all that made me cool. He came to me as a foster in 1997. He spent two weeks hiding in the hollow in the back of my couch. He had licked off the hair on his back legs from stress, was looking pretty rough. Eventually I wom him over and he turned into the cuddliest, friendliest cat.  Decker loved to visit other people’s homes, he always had a chair at our parties and HAD to sit between us at the dinner table just watching us eat and converse. Unless there was sushi then a paw would come up.  Dec. 2016 we were due to leave for California to visit my ailing Gran. Decker himself was at least 19 and had recovered from a broken leg just months before. I slept with a ribbon tied to his collar with the other end on my wrist as he wasn’t allowed to walk around or jump, but refused to be left in his cage. He had to be near me. He recovered quickly and was just fine almost improved.  But, two nights before we were to fly out he started looking out of sorts. I rushed him to the vet and a tumor was found in his belly.  I asked if it would be okay if we put him on painkillers so we could take him home for the night so that all his human friends could come by and say goodbye. She agreed.  We had a living wake that really helped us his family and his friends. I stayed awake all night looking over him. Early the next morning we took him to our vet who had set up a room with candles where we would finally lay him to rest. He was always a star at tge vet. He fought the meds as he would of course and it took awhile before the sedative worked. My partner and we’re in tears.  It was always my fear something would happen to him while we were away. I had always hoped to hokd him during his last moments. Decker was fine up until those very last two days. I think he gave me a gift. He knew his passing would break me apart. So he waited unt judt before I was to leave so that I could be there with him but not have to go to a home he no longer occupied to dwell in his absence. God I lovd that cat. He was a foster dad to many feral cats, a friend to all humans and my siil mate. He was also a black cat, the kind people are too superstitious to adopt and love. I have had several over the years and the black cats are always the most loving.

    • kimberlyw12

      I was staying in a hostel in London once and well there were bunk beds. The girl below me brought her boyfriend in and they went at it for a good hour at least. Bang bang bang the bed was rocking like a Spanish train. I had to leave in the end. Sat in the freezing cold hallway for an hour go back still at it. I was like come on already! I finally get back to bed to be woken up by guess what them going at it again invthe daylight with a mirror across from the bed, so I could watch everything. And it was an hour before my 7am alarm. I was like no one asked me if I wanted to be a part of this porn show you are holding here. WHO DOES THAT?! Needless to say I went to the front desk and told them I had had enough of the shaggers and to move me to somewhere else or someone was going to get more than a shag. Then when I arrived in my next room they got voluntold to NOT shag, think shag or do anything that might hint at a shag.

    • kimberlyw12

      What is wrong is your govt. and other nimrods inciting you to spy, hunt and snitch on your neighbors. This is what Hitler did to the Jews and communist Russia did to their citizens and immigrants during the times of the Iron Curtain and probably still happens in parts of the Eastern block and other “communist” countries or places like say N. Korea. Something American’s pride themselves in not having to endure or would ever inflict on others, moral piety, and yet here we are doign what those people do. Spying on people for our govt. Oh and by the way you have surely broken the law, do you consider yourself a criminal? Cause I am pretty sure you just said it does make you a criminal. American’s go around pounding their chest with The Greatest Country in the world, Land of the Free while ignorantly sticking their fingers up at every other country in the world assuming superiority while living in blatant denial that the things we see as so abhorrent in other places happen within our own borders. SO when the immigrants are pushed beyond the borders who are they going to turn on next? Is it you? Is your neighbor going to turn you in? Are they going to whisper your secrets. Because if it’s not our problem someone has to be to blame and it better be them and not me. Are you them? So yeah there is a problem it’s called a witch hunt and we already did that in our history.

    • kimberlyw12

      Yeah because sorority and rush week and all that crap is so close to real life. Seriously I didn’t go to university until I was 25 and believe me I learned how to handle alcohol and the 8 am show up at work the next day and met lots of people. Nad hey had my own apartment and responsibility and freedom from my parents before all that. Shit I had already been living in Europe for a year on my own. The real world is not college or University. It really isn’t. So yeah if you want to waste bucket loads of money to learn how to live in “the real” world and how to deal with hang overs go ahead. personally I think that is an immature life choice.

    • kimberlyw12

      Well you are almost correct. The more you earn the higher percentage of income tax you pay. It is called employers tax and basically if you pay your employee 30000 sek a month you must pay an additional 30000 in tax. So your employee will cost you a total of 60000. Which is why self employment is difficult and there is a lack of customer service and high unemployment it costs a lot to employ people here. AND you only get 80% of your wages if you earn over 30000 and have been paying to a union and have an additional wage insurance otherwise you will end up with tops 12000 out in unemployment insurance.  Scandinavians are far more cool with nudity despite not being nudists if you are going to compare to say the English speaking peoples. I know because I am an American ex-pat that is now a naturalized citizen of Sweden and lived in England, Scotland and Ireland for awhile. NO nudity there among friends.  If you are going to compare to the US then no people do not kill themselves over their work, they get proper holidays, time off for sick kids without threat to job, are allowed to leave on time and not be seen as a non-team player, Sweden has flex time which means you can use your overtime to say go to the bank during working hours etc. if you have say an office job. Over time happens but it is heavily regulated and not considered worthy of bragging points as in the US. IN other words you don’t have to sit at your desk looking busy on the weekends trying to impress your boss. Impress them by getting the job done, not by looking like your getting the job done.  

    • kimberlyw12

      being in a frat/sorirty is liking being a lemming with a penchant for abuse. greek community my ass. who exactly is Greek? An Aussie friend and I were visiting a friend at her sorority when after awhile they had some secret meeting. We had to swear on our dead babies not to reveal anything we mightnhear through the wall. It was all Oh My God what if they hear our secret meeting and tell the other houses. Neither of us went to the Uni and by this point had had real jobs for years. We were both thinking sure as if we care about your ya ya sister hood. We had to hold back fits of laughter when we heard the girls join the circle with the candles and begin singing their pledge of sisterhood to each other. yeah this shit is sooo real to us we cant wait to pass on the hate to your rival sorority. All this stuff teaches is how to bully and be a hater. Grow up already! Why would any thinking person subject themselves to this childish BS? Who?

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