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I Just Wanna Know Who You Think The Jerk Is In These 10 Wedding Stories

Am I the a-hole for attending a wedding purely for the free food?

Welcome to a special wedding-themed edition of "Am I the asshole?" polls, inspired by the wonderful Reddit community! Read the stories below, then vote on who you think is in the wrong. Have fun!

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Just so you know, some of these stories are based on Reddit posts, but not ALL of them. They're also not intended to be exactly the same as the original stories since we don't have room to include all of the details and sometimes add our own spin on things.

  1. 1. David and Patrick are getting married on the beach. David wants their wedding to take place at sunrise, so he asks the guests to arrive at 5:30 a.m. David's sister, Alexis, complains that it's way too early. David says to suck it up. Who's the asshole?

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1. David and Patrick are getting married on the beach. David wants their wedding to take place at sunrise, so he asks the guests to arrive at 5:30 a.m. David's sister, Alexis, complains that it's way too early. David says to suck it up. Who's the asshole?
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    David
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    Alexis
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    Neither of them
  1. 2. Spencer is marrying her friend Hanna's ex, Caleb. She says Hanna should come to the wedding, but can't be a bridesmaid like their other friends because it would be weird. Hanna brings Spencer's ex, Toby, as her date to be petty. Who's the asshole?

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2. Spencer is marrying her friend Hanna's ex, Caleb. She says Hanna should come to the wedding, but can't be a bridesmaid like their other friends because it would be weird. Hanna brings Spencer's ex, Toby, as her date to be petty. Who's the asshole?
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    Spencer
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    Hanna
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    Neither of them
  1. 3. Maudie is having a color-schemed wedding. She tells her cousin Merida, a bridesmaid, that her natural hair color will clash with the dresses and asks her to temporarily dye it or wear a wig. Merida says no and drops out of the wedding. Who's the asshole?

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3. Maudie is having a color-schemed wedding. She tells her cousin Merida, a bridesmaid, that her natural hair color will clash with the dresses and asks her to temporarily dye it or wear a wig. Merida says no and drops out of the wedding. Who's the asshole?
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    Maudie
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    Merida
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  1. 4. Buster asks his friend Arthur to be his best man. Arthur has very poor vision and needs glasses to see at all times. Buster asks Arthur to take his glasses off during the photos so he "looks his best." Arthur is offended and refuses. Who's the asshole?

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4. Buster asks his friend Arthur to be his best man. Arthur has very poor vision and needs glasses to see at all times. Buster asks Arthur to take his glasses off during the photos so he "looks his best." Arthur is offended and refuses. Who's the asshole?
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    Buster
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    Arthur
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  1. 5. Lorelai is getting married and asks for cash for wedding gifts. Her mother, Emily, thinks this is tacky and buys Lorelai expensive dinnerware instead. Lorelai says she did this just to be difficult. Emily calls her ungrateful. Who's the asshole?

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5. Lorelai is getting married and asks for cash for wedding gifts. Her mother, Emily, thinks this is tacky and buys Lorelai expensive dinnerware instead. Lorelai says she did this just to be difficult. Emily calls her ungrateful. Who's the asshole?
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    Lorelai
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    Emily
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    Neither of them
  1. 6. Freddie invites his old friend Sam to his wedding. Sam, who's been a vegan her whole life, asks what food there will be for her. Freddie says he forgot and it's too late to make changes to the menu. Sam says she won't be going then. Who's the asshole?

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6. Freddie invites his old friend Sam to his wedding. Sam, who's been a vegan her whole life, asks what food there will be for her. Freddie says he forgot and it's too late to make changes to the menu. Sam says she won't be going then. Who's the asshole?
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    Freddie
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    Sam
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    Neither of them
  1. 7. It's Lara and Peter's rehearsal dinner. When they practice their vows, Peter accidentally says his ex-girlfriend's name instead of Lara's. Peter insists it was an honest mistake, but Lara says maybe they should call off the wedding. Who's the asshole?

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7. It's Lara and Peter's rehearsal dinner. When they practice their vows, Peter accidentally says his ex-girlfriend's name instead of Lara's. Peter insists it was an honest mistake, but Lara says maybe they should call off the wedding. Who's the asshole?
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    Lara
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    Peter
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  1. 8. Drew goes to his cousin Haddie's outdoor wedding. He doesn't have any dietary restrictions, but is picky about what he eats. He doesn't like any of the food options, so he gets fast food delivered. Haddie tells him to leave. Who's the asshole?

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8. Drew goes to his cousin Haddie's outdoor wedding. He doesn't have any dietary restrictions, but is picky about what he eats. He doesn't like any of the food options, so he gets fast food delivered. Haddie tells him to leave. Who's the asshole?
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    Drew
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    Haddie
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    Neither of them
  1. 9. Frankie and Esme want a child-free wedding. Frankie's brother Miles and his GF Lola have a toddler. Two days before the wedding, the sitter cancels, so they ask to bring their kid. Frankie says it wouldn't be fair to make an exception. Who's the asshole?

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9. Frankie and Esme want a child-free wedding. Frankie's brother Miles and his GF Lola have a toddler. Two days before the wedding, the sitter cancels, so they ask to bring their kid. Frankie says it wouldn't be fair to make an exception. Who's the asshole?
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    Frankie
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    Miles and Lola
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  1. 10. John is a wedding videographer. When he looks over the footage, he hears one of the altar boys say the bride is "ugly." He choppily edits the sound to say "the bride is enchanting." His boss, Chip, yells at him for ruining the audio. Who's the asshole?

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10. John is a wedding videographer. When he looks over the footage, he hears one of the altar boys say the bride is "ugly." He choppily edits the sound to say "the bride is enchanting." His boss, Chip, yells at him for ruining the audio. Who's the asshole?
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    John
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    The altar boy

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