Skip To Content
  • Quiz badge
  • Poll badge
  • lol badge

I Am Genuinely Curious Who You Think The A-Hole Is In These 10 Situations

Am I the a-hole for refusing to open a can of beans for my daughter?

Welcome to another round of "Am I the asshole?" polls, inspired by the wonderful Reddit community! Read the stories below, then vote on who you think is in the wrong. Have fun!

Pop / CBS

Just so you know, some of these stories are based on Reddit posts, but not all of them. They're also not intended to be exactly the same as the original stories.

  1. 1. Melissa invites her sister Spencer on a vacation with her family and offers to pay for it. Once they arrive, Melissa tells her she expects her to help watch the kids. Spencer is mad, but Melissa reminds her it's a free trip. Who's the asshole?

    Getty Images
Oops. Something went wrong. Please try again later
Looks like we are having a problem on the server.
1. Melissa invites her sister Spencer on a vacation with her family and offers to pay for it. Once they arrive, Melissa tells her she expects her to help watch the kids. Spencer is mad, but Melissa reminds her it's a free trip. Who's the asshole?
  1.  
    vote votes
    Melissa
  2.  
    vote votes
    Spencer
  3.  
    vote votes
    Both of them
  4.  
    vote votes
    Neither of them
  1. 2. Paris is on a long flight and reclines her seat back. The guy behind her, Dean, is very tall and doesn't have much leg room. He asks her to raise her seat. Paris says no. Dean gets a flight attendant on his side. Who's the asshole?

    Getty Images
Oops. Something went wrong. Please try again later
Looks like we are having a problem on the server.
2. Paris is on a long flight and reclines her seat back. The guy behind her, Dean, is very tall and doesn't have much leg room. He asks her to raise her seat. Paris says no. Dean gets a flight attendant on his side. Who's the asshole?
  1.  
    vote votes
    Paris
  2.  
    vote votes
    Dean
  3.  
    vote votes
    Both of them
  4.  
    vote votes
    Neither of them
  1. 3. Luke and Lindsey have been dating for a few months. One night, Lindsey asks Luke if she's "the best girlfriend he's ever had." Luke replies that she's "definitely in the top three." Lindsey storms off. Luke says it was a joke. Who's the asshole?

    Getty Images
Oops. Something went wrong. Please try again later
Looks like we are having a problem on the server.
3. Luke and Lindsey have been dating for a few months. One night, Lindsey asks Luke if she's "the best girlfriend he's ever had." Luke replies that she's "definitely in the top three." Lindsey storms off. Luke says it was a joke. Who's the asshole?
  1.  
    vote votes
    Luke
  2.  
    vote votes
    Lindsey
  3.  
    vote votes
    Both of them
  4.  
    vote votes
    Neither of them
  1. 4. It's Cece's wedding reception and they've paid to have an open bar for their guests. The bartender, Jess, puts out a tip jar. Cece offers her money to put it away so the guests don't feel pressured. Jess is annoyed by the request. Who's the asshole?

    Getty Images
Oops. Something went wrong. Please try again later
Looks like we are having a problem on the server.
4. It's Cece's wedding reception and they've paid to have an open bar for their guests. The bartender, Jess, puts out a tip jar. Cece offers her money to put it away so the guests don't feel pressured. Jess is annoyed by the request. Who's the asshole?
  1.  
    vote votes
    Cece
  2.  
    vote votes
    Jess
  3.  
    vote votes
    Both of them
  4.  
    vote votes
    Neither of them
  1. 5. David goes to the movies and gets there early. About 15 minutes before the movie, a man named Roland asks if David can move down a seat so he and his wife can sit together. David says no, there's plenty of individual seats left. Who's the asshole?

    Getty Images
Oops. Something went wrong. Please try again later
Looks like we are having a problem on the server.
5. David goes to the movies and gets there early. About 15 minutes before the movie, a man named Roland asks if David can move down a seat so he and his wife can sit together. David says no, there's plenty of individual seats left. Who's the asshole?
  1.  
    vote votes
    David
  2.  
    vote votes
    Roland
  3.  
    vote votes
    Both of them
  4.  
    vote votes
    Neither of them
  1. 6. Stefan orders pizza whenever his relatives comes over. His brother Damon always eats a lot of slices and never pitches in. This time, Stefan orders a pizza with toppings Damon hates to get him to take less pizza. Damon is pissed. Who's the asshole?

    Getty Images
Oops. Something went wrong. Please try again later
Looks like we are having a problem on the server.
6. Stefan orders pizza whenever his relatives comes over. His brother Damon always eats a lot of slices and never pitches in. This time, Stefan orders a pizza with toppings Damon hates to get him to take less pizza. Damon is pissed. Who's the asshole?
  1.  
    vote votes
    Stefan
  2.  
    vote votes
    Damon
  3.  
    vote votes
    Both of them
  4.  
    vote votes
    Neither of them
  1. 7. Lola and her sister-in-law Frankie are pregnant at the same time. Lola has a boy name and a girl name picked out. Lola has a girl. Weeks later, Frankie has a boy and uses Lola's boy name. Lola is mad and says Frankie stole the name. Who's the asshole?

    Getty Images
Oops. Something went wrong. Please try again later
Looks like we are having a problem on the server.
7. Lola and her sister-in-law Frankie are pregnant at the same time. Lola has a boy name and a girl name picked out. Lola has a girl. Weeks later, Frankie has a boy and uses Lola's boy name. Lola is mad and says Frankie stole the name. Who's the asshole?
  1.  
    vote votes
    Lola
  2.  
    vote votes
    Frankie
  3.  
    vote votes
    Both of them
  4.  
    vote votes
    Neither of them
  1. 8. Julie and her daughter Marissa go out to lunch at a super busy restaurant. Marissa orders fries, but the waiter brings her a baked potato. Marissa sends it back. Julie says she should have just eaten the potato. Who's the asshole?

    Getty Images
Oops. Something went wrong. Please try again later
Looks like we are having a problem on the server.
8. Julie and her daughter Marissa go out to lunch at a super busy restaurant. Marissa orders fries, but the waiter brings her a baked potato. Marissa sends it back. Julie says she should have just eaten the potato. Who's the asshole?
  1.  
    vote votes
    Julie
  2.  
    vote votes
    Marissa
  3.  
    vote votes
    Both of them
  4.  
    vote votes
    Neither of them
  1. 9. D.W.'s sister Kate is getting married. At the wedding, D.W. casually mentions to a cousin that she recently got engaged. Kate says D.W. took the spotlight off her, but D.W. says it's not like she made a big announcement. Who's the asshole?

    Getty Images
Oops. Something went wrong. Please try again later
Looks like we are having a problem on the server.
9. D.W.'s sister Kate is getting married. At the wedding, D.W. casually mentions to a cousin that she recently got engaged. Kate says D.W. took the spotlight off her, but D.W. says it's not like she made a big announcement. Who's the asshole?
  1.  
    vote votes
    D.W.
  2.  
    vote votes
    Kate
  3.  
    vote votes
    Both of them
  4.  
    vote votes
    Neither of them
  1. 10. Petunia works at the front desk of a hospital. A man named John walks in with a miniature horse, which he says is an emotional support animal. Petunia says he can't bring a horse into the hospital. John says it's an unfair policy. Who's the asshole?

    Getty Images
Oops. Something went wrong. Please try again later
Looks like we are having a problem on the server.
10. Petunia works at the front desk of a hospital. A man named John walks in with a miniature horse, which he says is an emotional support animal. Petunia says he can't bring a horse into the hospital. John says it's an unfair policy. Who's the asshole?
  1.  
    vote votes
    Petunia
  2.  
    vote votes
    John
  3.  
    vote votes
    Both of them
  4.  
    vote votes
    Neither of them

BuzzFeed Daily

Keep up with the latest daily buzz with the BuzzFeed Daily newsletter!

Newsletter signup form