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I Am Once Again Asking Who The A-Hole Is In These Situations

Am I the a-hole for not letting my husband have a Best Buy card?

Welcome to another round of "Am I the asshole?" polls, inspired by the wonderful Reddit community! Read the stories below, then vote on who you think is in the wrong. Have fun!

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Just so you know, some of these stories are based on Reddit posts, but not all of them. They're also not intended to be exactly the same as the original stories.

  1. 1. Mary Alice is pregnant. Her coworker Francine, who sits next to her, likes to eat tuna sandwiches for lunch. Mary Alice asks her to bring something else because the smell makes her feel nauseated. Francine says it's not her problem. Who's the asshole?

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1. Mary Alice is pregnant. Her coworker Francine, who sits next to her, likes to eat tuna sandwiches for lunch. Mary Alice asks her to bring something else because the smell makes her feel nauseated. Francine says it's not her problem. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 2. Chuck and Didi are about to get married. A week before the wedding, Didi finds an engraved bracelet that Chuck was planning to give to his ex as a "friend." Didi wants to call off the wedding. Chuck says she's overreacting. Who's the asshole?

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2. Chuck and Didi are about to get married. A week before the wedding, Didi finds an engraved bracelet that Chuck was planning to give to his ex as a "friend." Didi wants to call off the wedding. Chuck says she's overreacting. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 3. Craig and his girlfriend Ashley both work full time, but only Ashley works from home. Craig says he's exhausted after work and just wants to go straight to bed without conversation on weeknights. Ashley says that's absurd. Who's the asshole?

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3. Craig and his girlfriend Ashley both work full time, but only Ashley works from home. Craig says he's exhausted after work and just wants to go straight to bed without conversation on weeknights. Ashley says that's absurd. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 4. Haddie's cousin Amber is expecting a baby. Amber has chosen a really "unique" name that Haddie finds ridiculous. Haddie tells Amber she should pick a different name so her kid doesn't get bullied. Amber uninvites her to the baby shower. Who's the asshole?

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4. Haddie's cousin Amber is expecting a baby. Amber has chosen a really "unique" name that Haddie finds ridiculous. Haddie tells Amber she should pick a different name so her kid doesn't get bullied. Amber uninvites her to the baby shower. Who's the asshole?
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    Haddie
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  1. 5. Blair and Dan recently broke up. They used to watch Game of Thrones together every week on Blair's HBO account. Blair discovers that Dan is still using her account, so she decides to kick him off right before the finale. Who's the asshole?

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5. Blair and Dan recently broke up. They used to watch Game of Thrones together every week on Blair's HBO account. Blair discovers that Dan is still using her account, so she decides to kick him off right before the finale. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 6. Jonah takes his girlfriend Frankie to a fancy restaurant with some of his friends. Frankie orders the mac 'n' cheese. Jonah says she embarrassed him with her "immature" choice of food. Frankie calls him ridiculous. Who's the asshole?

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6. Jonah takes his girlfriend Frankie to a fancy restaurant with some of his friends. Frankie orders the mac 'n' cheese. Jonah says she embarrassed him with her "immature" choice of food. Frankie calls him ridiculous. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 7. Joey and Pacey live in an apartment. Their downstairs neighbor Dawson complains that he hears them having loud sex at night. He asks them to stop hooking up after 8 p.m. Joey and Pacey respond by leaving a pair of earplugs at his door. Who's the asshole?

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7. Joey and Pacey live in an apartment. Their downstairs neighbor Dawson complains that he hears them having loud sex at night. He asks them to stop hooking up after 8 p.m. Joey and Pacey respond by leaving a pair of earplugs at his door. Who's the asshole?
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    Joey and Pacey
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  1. 8. Emily takes her daughter Lorelai wedding dress shopping. Emily sees one she loves and offers to pay for half. Lorelai prefers another dress. Emily says she'll only help pay for the one she likes. Lorelai says that's controlling. Who's the asshole?

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8. Emily takes her daughter Lorelai wedding dress shopping. Emily sees one she loves and offers to pay for half. Lorelai prefers another dress. Emily says she'll only help pay for the one she likes. Lorelai says that's controlling. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 9. Tom and Dil are part of a Dungeons & Dragons group. Tom has to miss a session, so he lets Dil play his character. The next day, Tom finds out he's been killed off. Dil tells him to just make a new character. Tom leaves the group. Who's the asshole?

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9. Tom and Dil are part of a Dungeons & Dragons group. Tom has to miss a session, so he lets Dil play his character. The next day, Tom finds out he's been killed off. Dil tells him to just make a new character. Tom leaves the group. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 10. Charles and Ellen take their family on a road trip. The kids see a McDonald's and start chanting to pull over. Charles goes through the drive-thru and orders a single black coffee. The kids are upset and Ellen calls him a bad parent. Who's the asshole?

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10. Charles and Ellen take their family on a road trip. The kids see a McDonald's and start chanting to pull over. Charles goes through the drive-thru and orders a single black coffee. The kids are upset and Ellen calls him a bad parent. Who's the asshole?
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