15 Truly Horrific Men Who Really, Really, REALLY Don't Deserve To Be Dads

    Not all dads are superheroes.

    Warning: Some posts include topics of verbal abuse, domestic abuse, anti-gay comments, and threats of violence. Please proceed with caution.

    1. "My dad disowned and threatened me because I didn't wish my mom a happy Mother's Day."

    Dad disowning kid because they didn't wish their mom a happy Mother's Day
    Dad disowning kid because they didn't wish their mom a happy Mother's Day

    2. "My estranged father passive aggressively messaged me about not being invited to my wedding, and then got creepy about finding me."

    Father shaming daughter about not being invited to her wedding
    Father shaming daughter about not being invited to her wedding
    Father shaming daughter about not being invited to her wedding
    Father shaming daughter about not being invited to her wedding

    3. "I have a psychological evaluation from a few years ago diagnosing my son. I'm his mother, and this is how his father responded to his mental health — he's completely unreasonable."

    Father not supporting his son's need for mental health medication
    Father not supporting his son's need for mental health medication
    Father not supporting his son's need for mental health medication
    Father not supporting his son's need for mental health medication
    Father not supporting his son's need for mental health medication
    Father not supporting his son's need for mental health medication

    4. "Gotta love my anti-gay dad — I wasn't even intentionally making an LGBTQ design. I just wanted a rainbow."

    Anti-gay dad insulting kid's rainbow art

    5. "This was my dad's 'slightly' excessive response when he delivered one of his packages to my address (which he didn't get permission to do, by the way)."

    Dad threatening daughter when she wouldn't provide him with a package tracking number
    Dad threatening daughter when she wouldn't provide him with a package tracking number
    Dad threatening daughter when she wouldn't provide him with a package tracking number

    6. "My dad thinks I'm a 'paid actor' because I support Roe v. Wade."

    Dad disowning kid because they support "Roe v. Wade"
    Dad disowning kid because they support "Roe v. Wade"
    Dad disowning kid because they support "Roe v. Wade"
    Dad disowning kid because they support "Roe v. Wade"
    Dad disowning kid because they support "Roe v. Wade"

    7. "I received a letter that was dropped in my mailbox, and I instantly knew it was this guy who's been obsessed with me since I was 15 years old. I asked my father for advice, but instead he blamed me and said the reason why I was stalked was because of my tattoos."

    Dad victim-blaming his daughter for having a stalker
    Dad victim-blaming his daughter for having a stalker

    8. "My dad has taken me to get shots my entire life, but now he doesn't trust the COVID-19 vaccine."

    Dad shaming his kid for getting the COVID-19 vaccine
    Dad shaming his kid for getting the COVID-19 vaccine
    Dad shaming his kid for getting the COVID-19 vaccine

    9. "This is the first text I got from my dad in the morning — he told me I'm a freeloader because I 'didn't pay the bill' for my house (which he owns). But, he was supposed to pay the bill because the house was vacant, and I hadn't moved in yet."

    Dad disrespecting kid because they didn't 'pay their bill on time'
    Dad disrespecting kid because they didn't 'pay their bill on time'
    Dad disrespecting kid because they didn't 'pay their bill on time'
    Dad disrespecting kid because they didn't 'pay their bill on time'
    Dad disrespecting kid because they didn't 'pay their bill on time'
    Dad disrespecting kid because they didn't 'pay their bill on time'
    Dad disrespecting kid because they didn't 'pay their bill on time'

    10. "My sister hasn't talked to our dad in a couple of years (for good reason), so he thought it was a good idea to show up unannounced to her college and hang out in the lobby of her apartment building for the day??? I guess he stalks her now (but apparently we're the dysfunctional ones)."

    Dad: "I can't get into the head of an immature 20-year-old. The next step is hers!"
    Dad: "Maybe I went about [visiting my daughter] wrong, but at least I'm trying"
    Dad calling his daughter and ex-wife wife hypocrites for drinking

    11. "I've been dealing with this type of stuff my entire life — tonight my dad made my wife cry by making a VERY insensitive joke. I've been building up this mass of hatred towards him for two whole decades — I blew up, and finally dumped him."

    Son calling out his dad for insulting his wife
    Dad manipulating son
    Dad: "You're a special person who bends shit to your benefit"
    Dad: "Coke would have been cheaper. Quit talking shit out of context, dumbass"
    Dad: "I tried the best with you! I raised you the best I could! Where was your mom while I raised you!"
    Son: "What about when you beat my cat and I tried to stop you"
    Son's continued list of abusive things his father did to him

    12. "My dad is refusing to give me MY insurance money."

    Dad refusing to give his kid back their insurance money

    13. "My brother has some major behavioral issues (he called me tonight crying and said he doesn't want to wake up). I organized a group chat with my mom and dad so they could work on getting him into therapy, but my dad refused. Instead, he called him a 'fucking loser.'"

    Dad: "Personality disorders cannot be treated"
    Dad: "They can only be identified. A person who is victimized by a person with a personality disorder can be"

    14. "My dad only contacts me when he wants something. This is what he messaged me out of the blue while I was crying at work."

    Dad angry that his kid won't give him their social security number
    Kid questioning why he needed it, him still angry
    Dad's final response: "I don't need it you should give it to me without question. You just lost $250,000"

    15. And: "My dad called me almost 350 times, then decided to use a relative's recent death as leverage against me (this was over the fact that I didn't pack for school yet)."

    Dad: "You successfully ignored three hours of my attempted contact"
    Dad texting their kid a line of "Hs"
    Screenshot of 238 missed calls from dad

    Note: Some posts have been edited for length and/or clarity.

    If you are concerned that a child is experiencing or may be in danger of abuse, you can call or text the National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-422-2253 (4.A.CHILD); service can be provided in over 140 languages.