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LGBTQ Women: What Was It Like Hooking Up With A Straight Woman?

We've all been there.

I'm just gonna cut to the chase, my LGBTQ ladies: If you're queer like me, chances are you've fallen for/been with a straight woman in your lifetime.

Rachel Weisz and Rachel McAdams in "Disobedience" kissing

It's a classic situation a lotttt of gay women have found themselves in, and sometimes it's a damn good experience, and sometimes it's a full-blown mess.

lesbian culture is: - falling for a straight girl - falling for your best friend - falling for a girl who’s still in love with her ex - falling for a girl who doesn’t feel the same way - falling for a girl who lives 5000 miles away - falling for a middle aged celebrity

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So that made me want to ask you, dear reader: If you identify as an LGBTQ woman, what was your experience like hooking up/being with a straight woman?

Maybe you spent a good four months having sex with a straight woman, which were filled with intimate moments she swore never happened. She said you were "only an experiment," and she "went back" to dating straight men (though it was a complicated decision on her part).

Whitney and Robyn from "Whitney: I Wanna Dance With Somebody"

Or perhaps you locked eyes with a straight woman at a party and immediately connected. She might've been dating a man at the time, but once you started spending time together as "friends," she left her man. She only wanted to be with you, and y'all lived happily ever after in a beautiful LGBTQ relationship.

Bette and Tina from "The L Word: Generation Q" saying they've always loved each other and kissing

Everyone's experience is different, but we want to hear yours! If you're an LGBTQ woman, tell us your juicy story of being with a straight woman in the comments below (or, if you'd rather remain anonymous, you can share in this Google Form).

Carol and Therese from "Carol" embracing

Some submissions will be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post!