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35 Things To Buy Your Long Distance Bestie If You Miss The Heck Out Of Them

Get the Monica to your Rachel something they can always remember you by.

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1. A druzy necklace to let them know that they truly are ~your rock~.

2. A deck of cards with original illustrations of 54 trailblazing women to give to the badass woman in your own life (who just so happens to also be your BFF).

Promising review: "I bought these for the women in my family — mom, aunts, cousins — that are remarkable and talented and immensely capable. Politics aside, it's great to have a stack of female leaders, innovators and glass ceiling breakers to show the next generation." —SNinTN

Get it from Uncommon Goods for $20.

3. An adorable soy candle that'll give them a small piece of home, no matter where they are.

Promising review: "Got this for my best friend — she keeps it in her living room surrounded by photos of her east coast friends and she LOVES the smell. Calls me every time she lights the candle, which works out for both of us :)." —Constance

Get it from Homesick Candles or Amazon for $29.95 (available in 50 states).


4. A unicorn bangle because they're just as magnificent as this magical creature, and everyone in the entire world should know that, too.


8. A box packed with adorable, heartfelt letters that you fill out and send to them so they can open some on important days or whenever they're really missing you.

Each letter has blank spaces that you fill in to easily (and thoughtfully!) create a treasure trove of special messages that they read when they want to hear your encouraging words. There are letters for certain holidays so they can open on their birthday or other occasions.

Get it from Knock Knock for $16.

10. A beautiful, leather-bound book of stunning tattoos and interviews with the world's best artists that your inked-up biffle needed, like yesterday.


13. A travel fund box so they can start saving for the next big adventure, with you of course.

Promising review: "This little travel fund box is exactly what I wanted to gift to someone dreaming of traveling in the future. It is well made and cute. Not too big, so it can sit on a bookshelf or mantle. I bought this along with a book on 100 must-see places in the world and it made a very nice gift." —snav

Get it from Amazon for $27.93.

14. OR! A personalized memory box with both of your names for keeping your favorite memories together. Think: ticket stubs, the best selfies, and letters you sent each other from across the world.


16. A set of in-sync, friendship lamps you can simply touch to light up when you're really missing your bestie. After you turn yours on, theirs will light up and they'll know you're thinking of them.

Promising review: "My friend, who lives long distance, bought me this for my birthday. At first I thought nothing of it, but then we set it up the magic happened. It has a super nice design, very good quality. It definitely brings a smile to my face every time he presses his and mine lights up." —Cyan Fish

Get it from Uncommon Goods for $75/each.

18. A sunflower growing kit because they're just as bright, sunny, and wonderful as this soaring plant and they deserve to know that every day!

The bag is biodegradable so there is no uprooting to a bigger garden, which could cause distress to the sunflower beb. Plus reviewers say it's super easy, so even if your BFF is a regular plant killer, they might have success with this!

Promising review: "Love the ease of this product. Simple and easy to get going. No major work or preparation needed. Received fast! No problems with my service or delivery!" —CC

Get it from Uncommon Goods for $12.95.


21. A book you fill in to state all of the amazing reasons why they're your best friend for life.

Promising review: "I got this for my best friend who is moving across the country soon and it was adorable to make and to watch her read. I had to write out all the prompts on a separate sheet of paper though so that I wouldn't repeat myself. Doing that I found that a couple of pages were pretty much duplicated but it wasn't too much of a problem. Overall it was a good going away/holiday gift and I'd recommend it to anyone looking to give something sentimental-ish to someone." —Sammyizzy

Get it from Amazon for $10.40 or Francesca's for $12.

22. A dainty zodiac necklace of their sign they'll love ~almost~ as much as your friendship. Shoot, get one for yourself so you two can forever be matching in jewelry and spirit!

Promising review: "Such a gorgeous necklace! I got one for all of my closest friends' birth signs. Awesome gift idea. The chain is dainty yet pretty sturdy and a lot longer than I expected. I kind of have a bigger neck but it fit fine with room to spare. The charm is well made and the stone accents give it a nice touch to make it look a little more expensive. I would definitely recommend!" —Gina Barbanera

Get it from Amazon for $13.86 (available in 12 signs).


25. A set of matching tees to get for the Abbi to your Ilana, or vice versa!

26. A pizza rescue kit your bestie will absolutely need if they cannot go without some type of seasoning on their pie. The pack comes with sea salt, an herb mix, and chili pepper so they'll always have their bases covered when they grab that on-the-go slice.

Promising review: "My best friends love pizza. They LOVE PIZZA. So naturally when this came up I knew this was the perfect gift for them. It's cute and compact and perfect for the pizza lover in your life." —Friend of a Pizza Lover

Get it from Uncommon Goods for $15.

27. A lucky llama charm so they can take a bit of you — and some loving vibes — with them on all their adventures.


30. A stunning kimono-style robe that'll make them feel fancy AF whether they're lounging around the house or headed out for the night.

31. A hand-blown glass ball with 52 tiny slips of paper your bestie fills out with their hopes and wishes each week. There are 12 hues to choose from — each corresponds with the birthstone of that month, so you can get one for your BFF's birthday.

Promising review: "I read the reviews on this product and figured why not! My sister called me and said it was one of the most thoughtful gifts she has ever received! Her husband told me she adores it and I scored a 10!" —Brenda

Get it from Uncommon Goods for $32 (available in 12 colors).


33. A pack of cat butt magnets that they'll obviously use to hang up photos of you on their fridge.

Promising review: "I cannot describe how much I love these cat butt magnets; they are beyond words. Aside from the ones for myself, I bought a set of these for my friends, my ex-roommate, and sister. They all love them. Even their friends love them! My sister told me later, 'I had a party and we lost two of them!' Okay, so maybe that isn't a good thing, but the point is — everyone loves these and the love of cat butts deserves to be spread! (But really, who goes to someone's house for a party and just decides, 'I want the calico cat butt. It is mine now.' I mean, really?)" —LEW

Get it from Bed Bath & Beyond for $9.99, Walmart for $12, or Amazon for $11.99

34. A linen pillowcase worthy of sitting on your best friend's couch *AND* a Dundie (FALSE, more like twenty).

Promising review: "Hands down one of the best purchases I've ever made. Every time I walk into my living room and see this beauty resting in the chair, I die laughing inside. The quality of the actual case is great and I've had no issues." —Blake Madden

Get it from Amazon for $8.99 (available in two prints), and an 18" X 18" pillow insert for $7.99.

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