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    21 Sex Toys That Are Basically Gifts For Your Clit

    'Tis the season to spoil the one part of your body that only exists to bring you pleasure — or your friend or partner who could use a little extra self-care under the tree (er, bush?) this year.

    We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

    What a year! The holidays are finally here! And while we’re doing our best to make sure the products we feature will arrive in time, shipping times are especially tricky this year, so we suggest shopping as early as you can.

    Stock and shipping times can vary depending on where you live, which product you purchase, and more. So order earlier than you think you need to and be sure to double-check the retailers’ websites for shipping information to ensure that your gift will arrive in time for when you need it.

    1. The Satisfyer Pro 2, a waterproof, touch-free toy that is a true legend among clit owners. It stimulates with vibrating airwaves without actually touching your clitoris. What is this brilliant sorcery???


    Some reviewers say it can also feel awesome on your nipples. As if that didn't sound good enough, it also has 11 different settings and comes with a magnetic USB cable for easy charging. Check out BuzzFeed's full write-up on the Satisfyer!

    Promising review: "This toy blew me away! I have a lot of trouble getting off and penetration never works so I wanted to try something different. The first time I tried it, I had back-to-back incredible orgasms and felt like I was floating for a few minutes after. 10/10." —Anonymous

    "This thing is amazing. I got mine and tried it out, not expecting too much — I'm FTM, so my junk is a little different, so I wasn't sure if it'd work for me like it'd work for a cis woman. But, holy guacamole, was I pleasantly surprised; it got me there within a few minutes, and it got me there *hard*. I normally use a wand for my personal time, but I don't even want to touch the thing anymore after using this bad boy. It works extremely well for what it's made for, and as a wonderful bonus, is extremely quiet, even on the higher settings. Get one." —Danny

    Shipping info: Ships within 24 hours and is sent via FedEx. Free shipping on orders over $49.95.

    Get it from Satisfyer for $35.97 (originally $59.95).

    2. Or the Satisfyer Pro Travel, which has the same squealworthy mechanism but in a super-compact, discreet package that's great even if you're not traveling. This thing will take you places though, let me tell ya.


    This is the kind of product that some BuzzFeed editor might have gotten as a sample from work and had never tried, but on a whim threw in her bag when she was packing for quarantine last year and is now VERY grateful to her past self for doing so. Not that I'm speaking for personal experience or anything.

    Like the regular Satisfyer Pro, it is waterproof, can also be used on nipples, and has 11 settings and a magnetic USB charger. The cover is also magnetic, so you can pop it on and suddenly it doesn't even look like a sex toy!

    Promising review: "Some of the best, most intense orgasms of my life. The average vibrator doesn't compare. The soft head conforms to your clit, no matter its shape or size. Wide range of vibration for gentle stimulation to intense, all-consuming takedown. This is the shit." —Anonymous

    Shipping info: Ships within 24 hours and is sent via FedEx. Free shipping on orders over $49.95.

    Get it from Satisfyer for $29.97.

    3. A bestselling, TikTok-famed, rosebud-shaped wonder here to prove a rose by any other name would still make you come as hard.

    red rose shaped toy
    Honey Play Box

    It has 10 modes, is waterproof, and charges via a magnetic USB charger. You can get it at Honey Play Box, a small biz with a *big* selection of great sex toys!

    Promising review: "Oh my someone suggested I get a rose, I was not sure what that was so I looked it up. Let's just say this was off the charts orgasmic within two minutes. I loved the texture it found the right spot. Love that it is rechargeable will definitely be one of my go to toys in the bedroom." —Dianne

    Shipping info: Flat-rate standard shipping is $7.99 (or free on orders over $69, nice) for the continental US. See full shipping info here.

    Get it from Honey Play Box for $58.99.

    4. Or a licking version if you're of the mind that the only thing that could make a rose more lovely is a lil' tongue.

    hand holding the rose shaped toy with tongue at opening and a metallic cutout handle at the base

    It is waterproof and has nine settings!

    Promising review: "Fantastic quality — the brassy gold chrome is a nice touch against the royal purple of the silicone! looks sleek and sexy in the box and in the hand. We were surprised that the tongue mechanism moves as much as it does (up and down, up and down) with a steady rhythm, and the plentiful vibration settings make each experience unique! Note that the tongue is the only part that vibrates, not the entire device (which was just fine by us). Also, the soft 'lips' of the toy create a lovely suction cup around the pleasure center, which, when combined, deliver a powerful hit of ecstasy. This is THE multifunctional pleasure device to buy: enjoy sucking, rubbing, and vibrating all in one discreet little package :). The battery life is wonderful as well — holding a charge for many repeat uses between plug-ins." —Carter Jolson

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with express delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $29.99 (available in four colors).

    5. A luxe, rechargeable, and waterproof option with an insertable end, because honestly why choose between internal and external stimulation when you can have both?

    A hand holding the toy, which is shaped almost like a mini hairdryer, but with a handle that curves in with a bulbous end

    It also has more fancy features that make it worth the $$$ — it only turns on when it's held close to you, so you won't get that noisy, suction-with-nothing-to-suck sound that you do with other suction toys. You can play around with the pretty much endless stimulation options to find your fave — there are 12 suction levels and 10 patterns for the vibe part. Plus, it comes with two different-sized heads to get your perfect fit.

    Promising review: "Oh my. What an amazing toy. I love the fact that it doesn’t look like a penis and it feels so smooth to the touch. I’ve owned lots of vibes over the years and had lots of fun with them. But never have I experienced an orgasm this intense! I squirted for the first time ever. I could barely stand up I came so intensely. Worth every penny!" —Lovehoney customer

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with express delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here). From Lovehoney, expedited shipping available at additional cost; free standard shipping on orders over $49.99. From Womanizer, express shipping available at an additional cost; free standard shipping on orders over $50.

    Get it from Lovehoney for $175.99 (originally $219; available in three colors), Womanizer for $175.20 (originally $219; available in four colors and comes with a free clitoris-shaped keychain), or from Amazon for $175.20 (available in four colors).

    6. The PlusOne Air Pulsing Arouser that's pretty in pink and pretty powerful too. Open up Spotify and queue up vagina power anthem "Pynk" by Janelle Monáe to go with it.

    A hand holding the palm-sized toy

    If you're looking for affordable-yet-awesome toys, I definitely recommend this brand, which is designed to bring super high-quality toys to folks on a budget and who feel more comfortable/discreet shopping at general stores like Target or Amazon than a specialty sex toy shop.

    Promising review: "My first and last toy. I only charged it for 15 minutes and used it for maybe one minute?? Cause the first setting alone is HIGH. I continued to mess around and I never thought my body was capable of doing certain things, but this device made me climax to my fullest potential, squirt and all. I ended up in different positions. I would suggest putting a towel down before starting! After your first climax you'll want to keep exploring. I hold it upside down like the third direction in the pamphlet, and WOW! It's a whole different experience! Must-have! Fits in a makeup bag! Just get it!" —Sillae

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with express delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here). From Target, free standard shipping arrives before Christmas and store pickup and same-day delivery are available in some locations.

    Get it from Amazon for $29.98 or Target for $47.99

    7. A super-satisfying version that basically does it all — one end provides the feeling of clitoral suction while the other works like a classic vibrator, so it can suit whatever mood you (and your vagina) are in.

    hand holding the pink toy
    Sweet Vibes

    Both the suction end and the vibrator have 20 modes, and you can control them separately to find your perfect combination. Plus it's conveniently USB-rechargeable, and customers love the customer service and lifetime warranty.

    Shipping info: Expedited and Priority shipping available at additional cost.

    Get it from Sweet Vibes for $42.49 (originally $49.99; available in two colors).

    8. The We-Vibe Melt, which you can def use solo, but it also pairs with an app that a partner can control from anywhere with Wi-Fi. Buh-bye, long-distance blues.


    It has 12 settings and is USB-rechargeable!

    Promising review: "Must-have. I purchased this as I'm unable to see my boyfriend due to the lockdown. We were having regular phone sex via video chat, but we wanted to feel more connected. I'm a sucker for clitoral stimulation, so when I saw he can control the toy and how it will feel against my clit from his house, I had to buy it. It was packaged well and easy to use. It's made from super soft silicone, which feels very sensual against the skin. It's easy to clean and store. It wasn't very loud on the low to middle settings. We played around for a little to make me wet and to get a feel for the toy, then he increased the intensity to about half, and I orgasmed so fast. He feels really turned on controlling my orgasms even from somewhere else. Highly recommend for people who are away from their partners." —Tattooed Barbie

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with two-day delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here). From Lovehoney, expedited shipping available at an additional cost; free standard shipping on orders over $49.99. For We-Vibe, expedited shipping available at an additional cost; free standard shipping on orders over $30.

    Get it from Lovehoney for $149.99, We-Vibe for $149 (available in two colors), or Amazon for $149 (available in two colors).

    9. A sleek option that's a splurge, but perhaps a small price to pay for the amazing multiple orgasms that reviewers say come included with it.

    A hand holding the purple toy, which has a very slightly curved handle

    It is waterproof and USB rechargeable and has eight settings.

    Promising review: "I cannot recommend this highly enough. If you doubled the price and it broke, I'd still buy it again in a heartbeat. Worth every penny. I'm a 30-year-old woman only recently getting comfortable with my own body and pleasure. I've felt a lot of shame and stigma around sex for most of my life that I'm trying to tackle now. I have never felt comfortable touching myself, particularly internally, so I bought this clit stimulator based on the reviews here. I have never felt pleasure like this solo before. It's unlike any other toy. It's a completely new sensation. I don't worry using it in my shared house, because it doesn't buzz. It just does a pretty quiet 'chug chug chug' noise (although it can get slightly louder when away from your clit/not against your skin at higher settings). I've never experienced multiple orgasms until today. Usually I come once and I'm done. Not so with this. I've felt very very close to squirting while using this twice (I have never experienced that before). And because it rumbles and creates this vacuum that kind of creates a tapping sensation on and around/enveloping your clit (dream), I come again and again...and again! I am someone who has always struggled with a low libido, stigma around masturbation, some hangups on insertable toys, and I usually only come once to boot. This has changed everything. If you own a clit, you need this. I cannot recommend this enough. If you only ever bought one sex toy, make it this." —LilyWarren

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with two-day delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here). From Lovehoney, expedited shipping available at additional cost; free standard shipping on orders over $49.99. From Womanizer, Express shipping available at an additional cost; free standard shipping on orders over $50.

    Get it from Lovehoney for $129.99 or Amazon for $99.

    10. The BuzzFeed x Bellesa Pebble, which is here to help you get your ~rocks~ off. It's ergonomically designed to be easy to hold, whether you're using it yourself or with a partner.

    hand holding the light pink toy

    It is rechargeable and waterproof and has five vibration speeds and five suction levels.

    Promising review: "This thing totally blew my mind!! Great design, fits in the hand perfectly, and it’s like having two toys in one with the sucking and the vibration, which operate independently. It’s small but powerful. Worth every penny!" —CW

    Shipping info: Expedited shipping available at an additional cost.

    Get it from Bellesa for $79.

    11. A discreet negative pressure suction vibrator in a compact and cute case (it's less than 4 inches in diameter!) ready to prove size truly doesn't matter when it ~comes~ to giving you amazing orgasms.


    It is waterproof and rechargeable via USB and has five settings!

    Promising review: "Wow! I don't know what else to say! I came soooo fast and after I did I had to just lay there because of how amazing it was. Then I just started laughing. This beauty made me orgasm AND made me happy. I love it! Buy it! Don’t hesitate. By the way, my first suction toy. 😉" —Michelle

    Shipping info: Expedited shipping available at an additional cost.

    Pre-order it from Bellesa for $59.

    12. An easy-to-grip suction toy, because you need something that can ~handle~ the wild ride you're about to take it on.

    the purple toy with bulbous bottom
    Hart's Desires

    It is waterproof, has three speeds, and comes with a magnetic USB charger. It's available at Hart's Desires, a Black-owned, DC-based erotic shop run by husband and wife duo Tony and Shani Hart.

    Shipping info: Packages ship Monday–Friday before noon EST and are usually in transit for two to three days. Full shipping info here.

    Get it from Hart's Desires for $99.99.

    13. A multifunction body pump, which comes with four interchangeable heads that can be used to, well, basically give you head. There are two different-sized heads for your vulva, one for your clit, and one for your nipples. You'll be ~pumped~ about all the above.

    The toy, which has a thick, curved handle, and the various heads, which are clear cups trimmed with purple silicone

    It has seven suction settings and seven vibration settings, is USB rechargeable, and can actually be used hands-free once sealed to your bod! But don't worry, it also has a quick-release button if you start to feel like the suction's too much.

    Promising review: "WOW. I don't even know where to start...the possibilities with this thing seem endless. I had no idea I could make myself so sensitive? It's truly been a game changer for me and my partner. Very happy with this purchase!" —Jana

    Shipping info: Expedited shipping available at an additional cost.

    Get it from Bellesa for $139 (available in two colors)

    14. The Unbound Puff, a medical-grade silicone, easy-to-hold, five-speed friend that's as cute and compact as it is effective at getting you off. Plus it's waterproof and rechargeable!

    the green toy in water

    Promising review: "I’m female to male transgender, 10 months on testosterone. I have used a few sex toys before, internal, external, anal, kinky, and all that fun stuff. In order of least to most favorite vibrators, I’ve tried an internal/external remote control, bullets, and wands, but those were all blown out of the water when I used the Puff. I’ve never used a suction vibe but I’ve always wanted to try them, especially now that I have bottom growth. At a low setting it’s the closest a vibrator has accurately simulated head, and the last two to three settings are like head but on steroids. With my history with vibes I’ve always put them full bast to get off, but the Puff was a VERY different story. I got to the third setting when I began to struggle to keep quiet. I thought 'leg-shaking orgasms' were just people overexaggerating, but the Puff definitely proved me wrong. I definitely went to recommend them to my FTM friends saying 'this thing is like a FTM blowjob machine!' I highly recommend the Puff to any transgender man, ESPECIALLY if they’re on T and have bottom growth." —Oliver P.

    Shipping info: Last day to order for Christmas delivery with expedited shipping is Dec. 15. See full holiday shipping info here.

    Get it from Unbound for $48 (available in two colors).

    15. A powerful toy with a tongue-mimicking function in addition to a suction one, for an even more realistic, oral-like experience that's sure to leave you tongue-tied.

    The toy in blue. It looks like a classic suction vibe with a curved handle, but there's a little-tongue shaped piece of silicone in the suction hole

    Honestly, you might be overwhelmed by the ways to use this baby BEFORE you're overwhelmed by the orgasm it gives you. It's got 15 vibration settings, seven suction settings, and four tongue-flicking speeds. Plus, this small business is woman-owned and super queer friendly!

    Promising review: "I purchased this vibrator from Rodeoh last February and I'd like to start off by saying I LOVE this product. I'm a trans guy with gender dysphoria and this product has been an incredible addition to my life!" —Eli

    Shipping info: For RodeOh, priority and Express shipping available at an additional cost. See full shipping info here. For Amazon, arrives in 4-7 business days.

    Get it in blue from RodeOh for $89.99 (originally $109.99). You can also get it in green from Amazon for $53.98.

    16. A seriously splurge-worthy upgraded rabbit vibe, because the one thing this classic sex toy shape was missing was clit-sucking action.

    The toy in blue. The suction head is right on the rabbit part's "face," under the ear-like tips

    It's waterproof and rechargeable, and the internal and external parts have separate six-setting motors.

    Promising review: "The best dual suction I've used. I hope people read this review and take it seriously, because this sex toy literally gave me the best orgasm of my life and honestly my first moment of nonstress during quarantine. I would pay the price three times over for the experience I just had." —Sage

    Shipping info: Expedited shipping available at an additional cost.

    Get it from Bellesa for $249.

    17. The BuzzFeed x Bellesa AirVibe, which has all the bells and whistles you could ever ask for in a toy. I'm talking internal vibrating and external sucking stimulation (with 10 and 5 settings respectively), a cute case, a rechargeable battery, and a waterproof design.


    Promising review: "I bought this hearing all the great reviews and I was eager to try it. I loved the packaging and the colors — beautifully made. Decided to use before my morning shower and get the day going. Once I pressed on, not even three minutes in, my eyes ROLLED, my knees BUCKLED, and I had to catch myself. I held in what could've been a loud scream! I managed to somehow get it off and laughed so hard because had I not, orgasms would've kept coming. This thing is powerful and magical!! Best purchase of my life." —DJ

    Shipping info: Expedited shipping available at an additional cost.

    Preorder it from Bellesa for $99.

    18. A splurge-worthy oral-stimulating vibrator that combines suction, a "licking" tongue attachment, and vibration that can all be turned on and off separately so you can customize exactly the experience you (and your vagina) want.

    Hart's Desires

    It also comes with two different-shaped suction heads and a textured sleeve for the tongue part to play around with different feels further. Add 10 vibration settings and seven licking settings, and I think pretty much everyone will be able to find their best O with this baby. Plus it's got a magnetic USB charger.

    Promising review: "This one here is something. Once it’s in the correct goodness. Good investment. The suction is superb and the different levels of tongue stimulation are a wild mix. Lip biting, eye rolling good. Get one. You won’t regret it!" —DeAnna

    Shipping info: Packages ship Monday–Friday before noon EST and are usually in transit for two to three days. Full shipping info here.

    Get it from Hart's Desires for $149.99+ (available in two styles including a 24K luxury editon).

    19. The very aesthetically pleasing Dame Aer for a super-sexy slow build that your other toys just can't provide.


    It's waterproof and USB rechargeable, with five intensities and five patterns.

    Promising review: "The first time I used this toy, I was super disappointed and ready to return it. The customer service rep encouraged me to try it again before making a final decision. And boy am I glad I did. Masturbation for me is usually a quick and efficient means to get off. The Aer has made masturbation more like actual sex — and being single, this has been so satisfying and just absolutely amazing. Does things for my nipples and clit that a regular vibrator doesn’t. I can use this toy and nothing else to achieve a sensational orgasm. Strong vibrators tend to make me go numb quickly; the Aer seems to be just right. Gentle enough to slowly build up or turn down the sensation. Love the look and feel of it too! Very smooth and soft exterior. A little bit loud in my opinion, but quieter when suction is achieved. My new favorite, I can’t recommend it enough. Definitely give it a few sessions before writing it off." —Veronica W.

    Shipping info: Express shipping available at an additional cost at both Dame and Feelmore. For Dame, order by 12/15 to get in time for Christmas.

    Get it from Dame for $95 or Feelmore (a Black- and queer-owned small business) for $99.

    20. A too-cute-for-words air pulse piggy you won't want to share with a partner — you'll be ~hogging~ it all night.

    pink pig whose face is a suction tip
    Honey Play Box

    It has 10 modes and charges via USB.

    Promising review: "I bought this for myself as a graduation gift. Even if it’s not very useful, I thought, at least it looks cute. But I didn’t expect this suction vibrator to be so powerful! It makes you curl your toes and roll on the bed uncontrollably. I just wanna say, it's wonderful!" —Hilda. Juel

    Shipping info: Flat-rate standard shipping is $7.99 (or free on orders over $69, nice) for the continental US. See full shipping info here.

    Get it from Honey Play Box for $47.99.

    21. And finally (while we're on the farm animal theme), a wonderfully ridiculous and ridiculously wonderful thicc chick-shaped toy who doesn't actually cluck but conceals a head that definitely sucks. Plus, that delicious booty vibrates for added external stimulation.


    I would say this dude is discreet since his funny face covers the toy, but, like, there's no way someone's not gonna ask why you have a thicc silicone chicken on your bedside table. Honestly, you should be proud.

    It's got eight suction and eight vibration settings and it's USB rechargeable and waterproof. Basically, it can't be beak.

    Shipping info: On both Amazon and Emojibator, expedited shipping available at an additional cost.

    Promising review: "This is by far, my favorite toy. It definitely does the trick. All the settings and options! Oh my!! Highly recommend!" —Heidi

    Get it from Emojibator or Amazon for $74.

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