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The Definitive Ex Survey

Got a long list of ex-lovers / They'll tell you I'm insane.

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Katie Heaney
Katie Heaney
BuzzFeed Staff
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Arianna Rebolini
BuzzFeed News Reporter
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  1. 1. How many exes do you have?

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    1-3
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    4-6
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    7-10
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    Over 10
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1. How many exes do you have?
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    1-3
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    4-6
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    7-10
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    Over 10
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  1. 2. How long do you have to date someone before you consider a breakup "a breakup"?

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    Any amount of time. It's just easier to use that terminology.
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    A few weeks.
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    A few months.
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    Only if we got to the DTR stage.
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2. How long do you have to date someone before you consider a breakup "a breakup"?
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    Any amount of time. It's just easier to use that terminology.
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    A few weeks.
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    A few months.
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    Only if we got to the DTR stage.
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  1. 3. In breakups, are you usually the dumper, or the dumpee?

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    Dumper
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    Dumpee
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3. In breakups, are you usually the dumper, or the dumpee?
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    Dumper
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    Dumpee
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  1. 4. What method do you prefer for a breakup?

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    Text
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    Email
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    Phone call
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    In person
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4. What method do you prefer for a breakup?
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    Text
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    Email
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    Phone call
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    In person
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  1. 5. Are there circumstances in which it's OK to break up by text?

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    Yes.
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    No.
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5. Are there circumstances in which it's OK to break up by text?
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    Yes.
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    No.
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  1. 6. Have you ever had a Gchat breakup?

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    Yes.
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    No.
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6. Have you ever had a Gchat breakup?
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    Yes.
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    No.
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  1. 7. Have you ever had a Facebook breakup?

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    No
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    Yes, via Facebook message
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    Yes, they changed their relationship status to single without telling me.
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    Yes, I changed my relationship status to single without telling them.
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7. Have you ever had a Facebook breakup?
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    No
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    Yes, via Facebook message
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    Yes, they changed their relationship status to single without telling me.
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    Yes, I changed my relationship status to single without telling them.
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  1. 8. Do you still follow one or more exes on social media?

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    Yes, all of them.
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    Some of them.
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    No, none.
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8. Do you still follow one or more exes on social media?
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    Yes, all of them.
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    Some of them.
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    No, none.
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  1. 9. If you've unfollowed ex(es) on social media, do you still manually check in sometimes?

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    I haven't unfollowed any of them.
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    No, I don't.
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    Once in a while.
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    Constantly.
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9. If you've unfollowed ex(es) on social media, do you still manually check in sometimes?
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    I haven't unfollowed any of them.
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    No, I don't.
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    Once in a while.
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    Constantly.
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  1. 10. Have you ever accidentally "liked"/"faved" an ex's status/tweet/photo?

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    YES, KILL ME.
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    No, thank god.
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10. Have you ever accidentally "liked"/"faved" an ex's status/tweet/photo?
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    YES, KILL ME.
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    No, thank god.
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  1. 11. Have you ever ON PURPOSE "liked"/"faved" an ex's status/tweet/photo?

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    Yes.
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    Never.
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11. Have you ever ON PURPOSE "liked"/"faved" an ex's status/tweet/photo?
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    Yes.
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    Never.
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  1. 12. After a breakup, do you keep yourself tagged in pictures of you and your ex?

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    Yes.
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    No, I untag or take them down.
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12. After a breakup, do you keep yourself tagged in pictures of you and your ex?
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    Yes.
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    No, I untag or take them down.
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  1. 13. How often do you (in most cases) talk to your ex(es)?

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    Never, so long as I shall live.
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    Rarely — only in the event of major life updates.
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    Occasionally. We're friends!
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13. How often do you (in most cases) talk to your ex(es)?
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    Never, so long as I shall live.
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    Rarely — only in the event of major life updates.
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    Occasionally. We're friends!
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  1. 14. How frequently do you drunk-text your ex(es)?

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    Too frequently.
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    Not very — just a few slips.
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    Never. Even drunk me knows that's a bad idea.
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14. How frequently do you drunk-text your ex(es)?
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    Too frequently.
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    Not very — just a few slips.
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    Never. Even drunk me knows that's a bad idea.
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  1. 15. Have you ever slept with an ex?

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    Yes; more than a few times.
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    Just a few times.
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    Just once.
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    Never.
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15. Have you ever slept with an ex?
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    Yes; more than a few times.
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    Just a few times.
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    Just once.
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    Never.
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  1. 16. Have you ever gotten back together with an ex?

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    Yes, a few times.
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    I've been on-again, off-again with one or two of them.
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    No.
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16. Have you ever gotten back together with an ex?
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    Yes, a few times.
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    I've been on-again, off-again with one or two of them.
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    No.
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  1. 17. What's the soonest you've started seeing someone new after a breakup?

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    The same day.
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    Within a week.
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    Within a month.
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    Within six months to a year.
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17. What's the soonest you've started seeing someone new after a breakup?
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    The same day.
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    Within a week.
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    Within a month.
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    Within six months to a year.
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  1. 18. Do you think you get over breakups quickly, or only after a long time?

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    Quickly.
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    Only after a long time.
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18. Do you think you get over breakups quickly, or only after a long time?
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    Quickly.
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    Only after a long time.
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  1. 19. How do you feel about speaking ill of your ex(es)?

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    I don't do it — no one is perfect.
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    I'll be diplomatic in mixed company, but my best friends know THE TRUTH.
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    SING IT FROM THE ROOFTOPS.
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19. How do you feel about speaking ill of your ex(es)?
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    I don't do it — no one is perfect.
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    I'll be diplomatic in mixed company, but my best friends know THE TRUTH.
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    SING IT FROM THE ROOFTOPS.
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  1. 20. Have you ever enacted revenge on an ex?

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    No.
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    No, but I've thought about it, duh.
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    Ahhahahaa. Yes.
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20. Have you ever enacted revenge on an ex?
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    No.
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    No, but I've thought about it, duh.
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    Ahhahahaa. Yes.
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  1. 21. Do you keep items that belonged to your ex(es) (e.g., clothing, letters, etc.)?

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    Yes.
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    No, I always give them back.
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21. Do you keep items that belonged to your ex(es) (e.g., clothing, letters, etc.)?
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    Yes.
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    No, I always give them back.
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  1. 22. Do you have an ex you're still in love with?

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    Yes.
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    No.
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22. Do you have an ex you're still in love with?
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    Yes.
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    No.
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