1. The moment you realize you've said all there is to say and it's really over.
2. When your ex changes their relationship status to "single."
3. When you block them on Instagram and Facebook, and remove them from your Snapchat list.
4. The first time you see your best friend after the big breakup, and they know exactly how to help.
5. And offer words of encouragement.
6. The first time you meet up with a group of mutual friends, and overhear what your ex is up to.
7. When people say, "Maybe you'll get back together!"
8. And ask if you ~want~ to get back together.
9. When you finally pick yourself up and go out as your single self for the first time in a long time.
10. Even though you're a bit rusty.
11. The first time someone hits on newly single you.
12. The moment you realize being young and single is fun AF.
13. When you decide to rebound, just because.
14. The moment you're finally ready to date again, but can't remember what to do.
15. And the moment you realize you are not defined by your relationship.
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