Seriously, rewatching this as an adult, Jess is so obviously an annoying little brat. Yeah he had a shit childhood with a flaky mom and dad but he was such an angry little jerk and no woman deserves that. Anyone who is in that kind of relationship with an abusive, unresponsive boyfriend should seriously take a look at their lives. Shoot, if my boyfriend was that disrespectful to the people I know and love - the people that were in my life before some little punk man ever came into my life, I would just be done. Misunderstood? I don’t think anyone in a healthy relationship should be ignored or have temper tantrums thrown at them. A girlfriend does not babysit her boyfriend. It is a relationship built on mutual respect and if he can’t deliver, move onnnn.