People Are Sharing The Sex Books That Basically Changed Everything For Them

"I read this until tears welled up in my eyes and then I put it down for a time. I didn't understand how much I had been taught by society and past partners about my own (lack of) self worth and how that affects my ability to function." —ashleighp4ce2cb1ef

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"An iconic book, really. It’s been so helpful to girls for quite awhile now." —molly1112

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"I had a pretty limited and heteronormative sex education in middle and high school. Even though I thought I had learned enough on my own, this normalized and taught me about things like intersex, different sexualities, and safe sex for lesbians (which is never talked about). It made me feel safe and seen, and helped me make good choices when I started college." —jamie918

Get it from Amazon for $15.25, Bookshop for $16.55, or find it at a local bookstore.

"In this book, the protagonist is autistic, and she finds her way romantically and sexually. The sex scenes are very well-written — and it is enlightening to see how she views them, given her autism." —Libresoy

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"What’s Going on Down There? and The Period Book, both by Karen Gravelle. They are, respectively, meant for young boys and young girls, as an introduction to sexual health specific to those two genders, but they both cover topics regarding the other gender, which is important." —rohasi

Get it from Amazon for $8.69, Bookshop for $12.87, or find it at a local bookstore.

"There are, I’m sure, other books that cover sex and sexuality more directly, but this was a great intro for me, just in getting to know myself, what was happening with my changing body, and how to practice safe and healthy sex when that time came." —rohasi

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—maxredmond

The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex covers safe sex tips, foreplay, sex toy suggestions, and STI-prevention advice, all in one comprehensive book.

Get it from Amazon for $17, Bookshop for $17, or find it at a local bookstore.

"I read it for a college public health class and learned so much about what I thought I knew." —Linette

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"Yes, it is possible to be a Christian AND sex-positive AND celebrate LGBTQ people AND be pro-choice." —jillannk3

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"This was like a 'how to' for us pre-teens in the '80s. (Not that we were ready, but always good info to have.)" —G3D

"At 11 years old, I thought ‘make love’ meant fall in love. It did not. I had very little sex knowledge prior to reading that book. Afterwards? Well..." —emilyf4a6fb358d

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—francescao3

YouTube star Hannah Witton's book Doing It! addresses everything sex-related — from consent and contraception to the actual enjoyment of sex — in a style that's approachable, relatable, and thoroughly fun to read.

Get it from Bookshop for $10.11 or find it at a local bookstore.

"My mom got me my first sexual positivity book when I was 12 and it was I Am An Emotional Creature by Eve Ensler. Not necessarily a sex-ed book but it definitely helped me feel less shameful about my desires and my body." —jessicavanschalkwyk

Get it from Amazon for $16, Bookshop for $16, or find it at a local bookstore.

"It's written like a 1950s self-help book — which is cute and adorable — but is actually filled with advice for everything from a first date to how to properly communicate in a group sex situation." —ReMiDe

Get it from Amazon for $1.68 (used), Thriftbooks for $4.69 (used), or find it at a local bookstore.

"[It's from] a series about the author’s journey into BDSM and then finding a way to incorporate that in a day-to-day normal relationship. I read this when everyone else was reading Fifty Shades and I can tell you these influenced me a lot more." —Shelby Fuson

Get it from Amazon for $17.14, Bookshop for $16, or find it at a local bookstore.

"Such a fun book that talks about the sex habits of different organisms and offers a good evolutionary perspective on our own sexuality." —ratchetbtch

Get it from Amazon for $14.32, Bookshop for $17.48, or find it at a local bookstore.

—francescao3

YouTuber Hannah Witton's book (titled after her series of the same name) talks about periods, hormones, and birth control in a super candid way.

Get it from Amazon for $13.59 or find it at a local bookstore.

"It’s both informative and hilarious!" —Blackbird68

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