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This Woman Shared Her Experience Of Sexual Assault To Highlight "Misjudged Manliness"

"Society is changing. We are changing it."

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Last week, Pina Charlotte, from Berlin, shared a post to her Facebook.

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In the post, she explains how she was on her way to go climbing in a park in Berlin when she was assaulted by a man:

The S9 train had just arrived. A group of guys (18-21) came out of one of the doors, one of them separated himself from the group, without me really noticing – why should I have? But seconds later, I felt a strong smack on my bottom and it being pinched.

The guy ran away, while Charlotte was still standing at the ticket machine.

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"As I turned around, I saw how one of the guys rejoined the group again, amid the hollering and laughter of the other 6-7. My cash card was still inside the machine.

Shocked by what had happened and unable to keep quiet, she spoke up.

It's pouring out of me ..."OK, guys, let's talk then! The whole train can happily hear this too! Which of you mama's boys goes round pinching women you don't know on the butt?"

"What's important is that I said something," she said.

I can't remember exactly what I said after that. Something like "disgrace to men", "no respect", "disgraceful", "you feel tough in a group" and "you should feel ashamed."



She said in the post that she shared her experience in the hope of empowering others to do the same:

I might not change these lousy examples of misjudged manliness, but society is changing. We are changing it. And I have the hope that maybe my daughter grows up in a few years' time without wondering whether a tummy T-shirt will degrade her into an object in the eyes of some men.

BuzzFeed News asked Pina Charlotte for a statement but has not received any response yet.

This post was translated from German.

Juliane Löffler ist Redakteurin für LGBT* und Feminismus und lebt in Berlin. Contact this reporter at

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