A terrible, painful, unforgettable lesson to learn: Be very weary of the person you just met, the one at the party, the one who offered” I’ll go get you another drink.” this happens to uncountable numbers of people, and no one will ever know, odds are, because of the ignorant way the situation is perceived. these people did nothing wrong. you shouldn’t have to be cautious of everyone, but you do- male or female, young or old, you do. this happened to my girlfriend, of six years, at an after prom party. she didn’t tell anyone for three years, not me, not anyone- and there were multiple witnesses. no one told, anyone. no one said anything. my advise- tell someone, and possibly help someone else avoid a life changing mistake.