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    I'm An American, And I Didn't Realize These 13 Unspoken Social Rules Weren't Recognized Globally

    "You always leave a tip. Always. Even if the service was unsatisfactory, you show your displeasure by leaving a small tip. But still leave a tip."

    As someone who grew up in the United States, I'll admit, the country's social etiquette would probably be very confusing to a visitor.

    In a Reddit thread started by u/Ilianxxkirby, people discussed some of the social rules that are accepted in the US, but may be considered unusual in other countries.

    We've rounded up some of the most discussed topics, so you can agree or disagree with them for yourself.

    Here are 13 unspoken social rules in the US that will make you think, "That's not normal in other countries?":

    1. It is generally frowned upon to stare at strangers, or to make too much eye contact with someone you barely know.

    Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson makes direct eye contact with another person.

    2. It is extremely rude to comment on somebody's weight.

    Regina George appears to be offended.

    3. Snapping your fingers at a waiter to ask for the check is a big no-no.

    A person signals for the check to a waiter in a restaurant.

    5. In public settings, Americans are big on personal space.

    A woman is freaked out at how close another person is to her.

    6. Americans place a bigger importance on lines than some other countries do. Therefore, cutting in line is considered very rude.

    A single-file line.

    7. Most of the time, you can't haggle for prices, and you can't ask the cashier to take off tax.

    A woman appears to be paying a cashier.

    8. It is generally considered taboo to mention politics to someone you don't know well.

    Barack Obama makes a confused face.

    9. Americans may invite you somewhere, but it is generally agreed upon that you should not show up somewhere unexpectedly.

    Jimmy Fallon makes a confused face.

    10. It is rude to ask how much money someone makes, or how old someone is.

    Dan Levy makes a concerned face.

    11. When someone asks, "how are you?" no one is actually expecting you to answer honestly.

    SpongeBob and Squidward engage in a conversation.

    12. Not finishing your meal at a restaurant is completely normal, and it is okay to ask for a to-go box.

    A young girl eats a mouthful of pasta.

    13. You should always tip, even if you thought the service was bad.

    A store clerk says, "You know, sir, tipping is customary."

    If you're in the United States, do you agree with these? And if you're not in the United States, what are some of the unspoken social rules in your country? Tell us in the comments!