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    19 Things You'll Understand If You're Tough But Also Really Sensitive

    “I don’t care,” I say, caringly, as I care deeply.

    1. You dislike a lot of people, but you really care about whether people like you or not.

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    2. You always stick up for your friends and won't let anyone hurt them.

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    3. But you're less likely to do the same for yourself.

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    4. Sometimes you cry because you're angry, and then worry someone will mistake it for you being upset.

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    Angry tears are different from sad tears — why don't people realise this?

    5. If something major is going on, you can often handle it without anyone even knowing.

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    6. But then you'll see an old couple in love or a puppy and feel really overwhelmed.

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    7. In an argument, you know you can dish it out but can't take it.

    8. And sometimes you'll linger on a minor comment for way longer than you expected.

    9. You like to joke that you have no feelings.

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    Which is only true some of the time.

    10. So you feel embarrassed at the thought of anyone knowing their words got to you.

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    11. You're secretly cutesy with people you care about, but would never be that way publicly.

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    12. You always tell people to cut off someone who badly hurt them because it's what you would do.

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    13. But when you do cut someone off, you think about it constantly afterwards.

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    14. Whenever you're upset you'll either start arguing or crying, but you can never predict which.

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    15. Or you'll say, "Whatever, I don't care" – even if you low-key do.

    16. You're good at giving tough love to your friends and telling them advice they may not want to hear.

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    17. But your ~secret~ sensitive side means you'll always be there to comfort them when they don't follow it.

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    18. You find talking about your feelings super awkward.

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    19. And although you seem tough, you actually much prefer the idea of confrontation rather than the real thing.

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