jane_angela

Fighting about small things. I hate hearing a friend of mine saying that fighting about the little things is normal and it's healthy. You shouldn't be fighting about small things, you should be fighting about big things like having kids or buying a house, not who left the milk out.… Read More

I personally don't think people must have a passion or purpose. I can honestly say that I don't have a talent or specific passion. I have things that I'm good at and things that I like to do, but they're not my passions or talents. I think that should be normalized. I went through… Read More

I'm Chinese and Vietnamese. I've experienced racism my whole life, but usually in small subtle ways: people being surprised that I drive well, people being surprised that I'm not good at math, people surprised that my bf isn't also Asian. Stuff like that. When Trump became president,… Read More

I stopped seeing a therapist because she told me that I'll regret my decision to not have children because when I'm old, I'll feel like I need that love from someone if my husband isn't around anymore.

when I told my last ex that I was feeling extremely depressed to the point of suicidal thoughts, and was considering seeing a therapist, he said to me, "Therapy is for rich people. Poor people like us just deal with it." It was covered by my insurance and was only a $30 copay each… Read More

I was reading this while drinking a beer in a restaurant, and literally spit my beer on the table when I got to the end. ?

My brother can't either. And he grew up in a traditional Chinese household. He's got 2 kids, a wife, his own 2 story house, makes $90k a year... And he still can't use chopsticks. He just stabs his food with them if he's required to use them.

I can't do basic math. I'm Asian so a lot of people assume I'm a genius mathematician, but I'm awful at it. I once bought 5 tacos from a food truck for friends while at a brewery, and when they asked me how much each was, I said, "I don't know but it was $10." And they just looked… Read More

I used to work at a sushi restaurant in Glendale, and we'd get a lot of snobby customers. But one day, a lady came in with her family and kids towards the end of the night. I waited on them, and the lady was actually nice. But her 8 year old son was the most spoiled brat ever. He… Read More

My cat's name is Buttered Toast. Butters for short. We got him at the shelter. He picked us. My boyfriend says he reached his paw out of the cage and touch him as he passed by. And when the vet let me hold him, he snuggled his cheek up to mine. He picked us, and we're so glad he did.… Read More