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    24 Things People Actually Swear By For Better Sex

    Tons of people swear these toys got them off, so it's only logical that they'll get you off too!

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    1. An adorable, yet effective butterfly kiss vibe with dual-action vibrations for your g-spot and clit to send you over the hill again, and again, and again.


    Promising review: "This was my first toy, and I'm so glad I got it! The little butterfly is wonderful, and can get me off at the lowest speed! The highest vibe setting is a bit too intense, but again, I'm new to toys. I'd highly recommend it as an intro toy." —Anonymous

    Get it from Amazon for $12.31 (available in two colors).

    2. A discreet necklace vibe to wear at every event just in case you feel like getting a little frisky. We won't tell if you do.


    Promising review: "I am very impressed by its discreetly gorgeous presence. It is great for traveling, smaller than a pen, with a tiny USB charger — also discreet! It is great for public sex or last-minute sleepovers. It makes an incredible gift for anyone bold enough to experience it as a staple bullet vibe and/or accessory. However, keep in mind because of the material, it does trap both mechanical and body heat, which for some is an added bonus." —Tura

    Get it from Amazon for $79+ or on Babeland for $69+ (available in three colors).

    3. A purple starter dildo made specifically for anal play, because lord knows you don't want to start too big and ruin those fantasies you had that made you wanna try it out in the first place.

    Love Honey

    Make sure all of your dildos have a flared base if you're gonna be engaging in anal, y'all. You don't need to go to the ER with a silicone phallus in your butt 🙃.

    Promising review: "Wow! I am very pleased with this little dildo, this is spot on, literally! The head is nice and it gives lots of stimulation, and so do the lovely veins. The flared base is good especially for anal play. It has no icky smell like some toys do. Lovehoney’s discreet packaging and delivery are good as always." —Wayson7

    Get it from Lovehoney for $14.99.

    4. A gold-finish metal dildo perfect for anal play, which means you can prep your butt for some mind-blowing penetration.


    Promising review: "This is amazing. It rubs the prostate just right, and very comfortable for long-term wear. Makes me leak precum the whole time!" —Matt

    Get it from Amazon for $24.99 (available in 20 different shapes and styles).

    5. A super realistic feeling silicone vagina with special inner grooves to spice up your semi-regular fap time. Just be sure to lube this bad boy up before you use it.


    It has a tight feeling, and a varied texture, and you can add a bullet vibrator for more fun.

    Promising review: "When well lubed it's amazing just how real this feels! The most intense orgasms I've ever had with a toy have come from using this, it is an honestly amazing toy! Because of the other hole at the end makes cleaning really easy, just need to run water through it and it also dries really well, unlike other strokers that I've had, this one is the best I've had in all respects!" —Bisexual Single Male

    Get it from Lovehoney for $19.99.

    6. A basic vibe (it kind of looks like a cactus) with a ridged texture to tickle all those sensitive nerves on your clit or in your vagina. Maybe try a little twirl, seems like it'll rock your world.


    Promising review: "Are you super sensitive? Do you find most vibrators to be way too powerful for you with off putting vibrations? Do you hate firm, hard materials? If you answered yes to one or all of these questions, the Iroha Zen may be the toy of your dreams. Its material is SUPER buttery soft and squishy, with gentle texture. It's very quiet (hence the soft vibration)." —Mermaid of Manhattan

    Get it from Babeland for $35 (available in three colors).

    7. A double-bulb prism glass plug, which can be used for fun in the back or the front.


    Promising review: "A great addition to the toy box. A step up if you're relatively new to back door play — take your time and when the second bulb pops in, you'll be in your happy place. Old hands will find this a nice warm-up toy. Being glass, any lube works fine but thicker stuff better still. Easy clean-up, nice velveteen storage bag. Contrary to another review, this is a SOLID piece of glass." —m3m0ryleak

    Get it from Amazon for $15.30.

    8. A super reliable, dependable, and outright AMAZING Satisfyer Pro 2 that'll suck on your clit for you, simulating oral sex to keep you coming for hours, probably.


    Promising review: "OMG! This is absolutely mind-blowing. The longest and deepest and quickest orgasms I have ever had. Being rechargeable is a dream, as there is no more need for batteries." —psaltybunny

    Get it from Amazon for $48.

    Check out our write-up on the Satisfyer Pro 2 for all the info!

    9. A wonder wand vibrator with added kegel balls, because you'd love to work on your inner muscle strength so that your orgasms can be out of this world.


    Includes a free bottle of lube and it has three intensities and four pulsating modes.

    Promising review: "OMG! Do your self a favor and buy it! It fits perfectly to my body; I needed only one minute to get my orgasm. I like the silicone touch, it feels like the real thing and the gel makes it even smother." —AR

    Get it from Amazon for $34.95.

    10. A super quiet and smooth vibrator for when you really don't want to alarm your roommates but you have an...itch that really needs to be scratched.


    It has nine different vibration modes if you want something different every time you use it!

    Promising review: "Wow. This is my first vibrator and all I have to say is wow. As soon as I took it out of the package, I was astounded by the quality. It feels silky smooth. It also comes with an adorable little pouch which is also very soft. There’s several different vibration options as well which is always fun. If it breaks I will actually cry because I love it so much. This is my new best friend. It feels amazing. I love it." —L

    Get it from Amazon for $21.69 (available in two colors).

    11. A truly incredible Lelo Sona clit massager that'll use sonic pulses to really give you deep-ass waves of pleasure. Maybe Adele was singing about this the whole damn time!


    Promising review: "This thing just became one of my top five most prized possessions. I do not consider myself a multi-orgasmic woman. This toy showed up today and I was able to use it for the first time around 3 p.m. It's now 5:20 p.m., for reference. I've used this toy now for a combined total of about 35 minutes in two sessions. In that time, I've had at least 15 orgasms. I say at least because once I got past about four or five consecutive ones it became very difficult to keep track. It took me about five to ten minutes in my first session to figure out what I was doing, and that time was very unpleasant. But I am so amazingly glad I did not give up. Use a lot of lube. This isn't like a regular vibrator. The intensity sneaks up on you fast. The Sona Cruise has seriously just changed my sex life and sexual satisfaction level irrevocably. The most orgasms I've ever had in a row before this is two. I'm pretty sure that earlier today I managed nine in a row before I had to stop. I realize I'm gushing (pun utterly, completely intended) about this toy, but there aren't enough words." —Hannahbannanah

    Get it from Amazon for $69 or Lelo for $99 (available in three colors).

    Check out a BuzzFeeder's post about the Lelo Sona for more info.

    12. A mini wand vibrator with over 20 vibration modes so you can change up the rhythm, because you need variety in all of your big O's.


    It also has eight speeds which means you can go as fast or as slow as you please.

    Promising review: "This thing? ABSOLUTELY AMAZING! It feels good on muscles and for, um, you know. It achieves so much in so little time! Big O's and waterfalls that I haven't experienced in years! It's a must-have!" —Jessica

    Get it from Amazon for $18.99 (available in two colors).

    Check out a BuzzFeeder's closer look on the Shibari Vibrator here!

    13. A clit-sucking vibrator that'll also double as an insertable g-spot dildo, because some nights you want to get right to business, and other nights you wanna explore if you can get off multiple times through penetration. Versatility, babe.


    It's also waterproof just in case you wanna have some fun bath time.

    Promising review: "Holy crap like that’s really all I can say, lol. I saw the reviews and that’s what sold me. I thought people were exaggerating, but when I say this thing made me feel crazy good in like .00001 seconds, I’m not lying! The sucking portion alone is worth your money! Put that baby on your lady parts and BAM! Lol. Point is I recommend it, okurrr!" —Marlice

    Get it from Amazon for $33.95+ (available in three colors).

    14. A lipstick massager complete with multiple speed patterns you can absolutely take on vacation to make it even more ~relaxing~.


    It's waterproof, USB-rechargeable, and has six vibration patterns.

    Promising review: "Surprisingly powerful. It has lots of speed options, as well as different vibration patterns. This is a great little secret toy because it looks like a lipstick or a USB drive. It charges quickly and lasts for a good 45 minutes before it starts to fade. I think eventually I'll upgrade to a larger, more powerful LELO model, but this is a great starter toy." —Mimi Kanasis

    Get it from Lelo for $84.90 (available in three colors).

    15. A smooth and perfectly bendable dildo that kind of looks like Nessie the Loch Ness Monster if Nessie wanted to take you to higher heights.


    Promising review: "I like smooth toys that don't look like actual penises. I also prefer silicone toys. This was an inexpensive option that fit my criteria, and purple is my favorite color. It's a very pretty, pearly purple. The size is good for me. It's a quality toy and...ahem, does the job. The lack of ridges and seams makes it easy to clean, and the wide base helps me play safely." —Sam

    Get it from Amazon for $26.99 (available in three sizes and two colors).

    16. A bendable silicone vibrator so you'll be able to receive deep penetration while the 10 vibration settings will have your toes curling in pleasure.


    Promising review: "It definitely surprised me on how amazingly fast this guy can bring you to your knees! This guy should be everybody's best friend. If you don’t have him, you need to buy him! The best part is he bends to you." —Boymom3

    Get it from Amazon for $16.99.

    17. A soft, realistic dildo with raised veins and a pointed head for all of your alone time activities. It even has a flared base to use with a strap-on.


    Promising review: "This item is wonderful and feels amazing! It's extremely addictive and I've already used it twice within four hours, which is not like me. I'm NOT typically that 'excited.' The suction is good and it hits my g-spot perfectly. It's easy to cum with how this is shaped. Cleaning it is easy as well. This has quickly become my new favorite purchase!" —Amazon Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $12.69 (available in three colors).

    18. An iconic rabbit vibrator so you can have both clitoral and vaginal stimulation, which means you'll be able to get to your peak faster and come...harder.


    It has 10 functions and a rotating shaft to stimulate actual penetration. I'm screaming (in ecstasy, of course).

    Promising review: "Wow, this powerful little rabbit packs a punch. I can’t get enough of this toy. In fact I’m sure my other toys feel a little neglected ever since this little rabbit hopped into my drawer. It has three different speeds and numerous different rotations, this rabbit will get you going in about two minutes flat. If you’re a bit like me and need some POWERFUL vibrations, this is the toy for you." —PrettyInPink23

    Get it from Lovehoney for $31.99.

    19. A vibrator with a curved base and a textured clit-tickler to give you a dual dose of eye-rolling pleasure, because there's nothing like two different orgasms at one time, am I right?


    Promising review: "This toy does the trick for me every time. The curve of the shaft helps it hit the g spot. I like the little nubs on the outside stimulator a lot more than the typical bunny ears. The outer ring and the flexibility of the bunny attachment creates a sensation where it feels like it is gently pulling and sucking your clit together with the tickling. Best rabbit style vibrator I have used." —Dragon

    Get it from Babeland for $35.

    20. A legendary Magic Wand, because it's been everyone's favorite vibrator for 20 years now, and the sensations are so fucking good EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.


    Promising review: "This is the king of vibrators. End of story. Period. After several years, ours suddenly died. My wife cried. Literally. Not kidding. Immediately ordered another. She then told me I should have gotten two just in case it died again in the future so she wouldn't have to go several days without it." —PhantomLord

    Get it from Amazon for $54.99.

    Check out our write-up about The Magic Wand for more info!

    21. A Fleshlight to jack into till the crows come home, because it's the magnum opus to penis owners everywhere.


    Promising review: "It's not exactly like the real thing, but it's probably as close as it can get. It feels tight and gets the job done every time! It's easy to clean, and once you put the cap on, it's pretty discreet." —skytrooper173

    Get it from Amazon for $64.95 (also available in super tight).

    22. A beginner's strap-on you and your partner can enjoy... together. It even has a flared base for a little backdoor action.


    And who doesn't like a tossed salad?

    The dildo is only seven inches, and can be replaced by larger or smaller ones as you please!

    Promising review: "So me and my girlfriend have tried a couple of strap-on dildos in the past, but this one is by far our favorite! The harness has adjustable straps to fit a body perfectly, whether big or small! It also doesn't rub like a lot of harnesses, which I'm super pleased with. It's very sturdy, so the dildo doesn't go anywhere, only where you want. The dildo that comes with the strap on is amazing. One of the best I've used! It fits like a glove and really hits the spot. My partner and I had lots of fun! The harness also has different rings you can attach to it so you can put a small, medium or large dildo in it, and I thought this was great as it perfectly fit our anal dildos." —fifththeflowerex

    Get it from Lovehoney for $39.99.

    23. A dual vibe to surround their clit with the greatest vibrations man has ever known. Kind of like surround sound, but for sex.


    The vibrations on this baby aren't super strong, so if you're just getting your feet wet, this would be perfect!

    Promising review: "The silicone surface is soft, non-irritating to my sensitive skin, easy to clean, and fast to dry. The size allows for a good balance of power vs. discretion. I particularly appreciated the way the sensations from the dual-motor design responded to manual variations in pressure; squeezing the two ears made a noticeable difference in the intensity of the vibration, effectively doubling the sensation possibilities. If your clit gets over-sensitized (or under-sensitized) from multiple orgasms or repeated stimulation, the versatility of gripping and touching patterns will be very helpful; it's one of the selling points of the toy, and it didn't disappoint. It was like clitoral surround sound, which is, frankly, baller." —April

    Get it from Amazon for $57.23 or Babeland for $59 (available in two colors).

    24. A gargantuan purple monster capable of giving you the multiple orgasms you've been waiting for.


    Promising review: "Very big, what more can I say? This is definitely a big toy but its exactly what's described. The suction is very good and it still stays in place during any activity. The girth is really thick and the material feels realistic with the features of veins and wrinkles. All in all this toy is very big, very nice, and pleasurable." —Thrifty Mommas

    Get it from Amazon for $15.99+ (available in three sizes).

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