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    Updated on Nov 12, 2019. Posted on Nov 12, 2019

    20 Sex Toys That Are Sure To Help You Get In The Mood

    These toys will have you coming all night long like the Mary Jane Girls song.

    We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

    1. A smooth and perfectly bendable dildo that kind of looks like Nessie the Loch Ness Monster if Nessie wanted to take you to higher heights.

    Amazon

    Promising review: "I like smooth toys that don't look like actual penises. I also prefer silicone toys. This was an inexpensive option that fit my criteria, and purple is my favorite color. It's a very pretty, pearly purple. The size is good for me. It's a quality toy and...ahem, does the job. The lack of ridges and seams makes it easy to clean, and the wide base helps me play safely." —Sam

    Get it from Amazon for $26.99 (available in three sizes and two colors).

    2. A truly magical magic wand. Not only does it get the hard-to-reach kinks out of your back, but it will literally have you reaching a peak where tears come out of your eyes. It's THAT good, y'all.

    Babeland

    There's only two speeds, low or high. Pick your poison.

    Promising review: "This is the greatest thing that's ever happened to me. I used it and I found God. It was like Mariah Carey in angel wings gently lifted me to multiple orgasm. It was like when the surprise Beyoncé album dropped. It was like a hot, chiseled dude in a man-bun was whispering Audre Lorde to me until I came. It was like my high school girlfriend and I watching the OC scenes with Marissa and Alex. I had to have a cigarette after because I felt so thoroughly fucked (smoking is bad for you so don't follow that part). I felt like I was floating. I felt like Mia in The Princess Diaries when she turns the lights on with her foot pop as she's kissing Michael Moscovitz. Yeah, it's loud as hell but I live in a tiny-ass Brooklyn apartment with four other people and just decided that they could deal with the vibrating noises. Own it; you're living your best life. Real talk, I highly recommend this for anyone who has a vagina and wants clit stimulation." —Ava the Believer

    Get it from Amazon for $49.89 or Babeland for $59.95.

    Check out a BuzzFeed shopping writer's post on the Magic Wand here!

    3. An adorable fox tail butt plug. Who doesn't want to role-play as a forest animal before going down to poundtown?

    Amazon

    Promising review: "Great texture to the tail with little shedding. The plug itself was the softest toy I have ever had, and it was quite enjoyable." —David

    Get it from Amazon for $26.39 (available in two colors).

    4. A bulky g-spot rabbit with seven modes of vibration to take you to the high heavens and back again.

    Bellesa

    Promising review: "The is my third rabbit! I love how cute and not tacky she is. Fills me up in the best way. Nothing but love for my bunny!" —Kim

    Get it from Bellesa for $129.

    5. A double-sided dildo both you and your boo can ride together. Or use it by your lonesome, whatever!

    Amazon

    Promising review: "It feels amazing, holds body heat well, and is great solo or with a partner. My girlfriend likes to put one end in me, bend it upwards, and ride cowgirl." —Mrs. S

    Get it from Amazon for $12.71 (available in nine colors).

    6. An adjustable thigh spreader, because who has time to buss it wide open when you have this to do it for you?

    Love Honey

    Promising review: "Bought this as a surprise for the girlfriend and I can honestly say it's probably the most fun we've had in the bedroom. Twinned with a blindfold and a few other toys of your choice, this can provide hours of fun!" —Bigmatti

    Get it from Love Honey for $29.99.

    7. A bullet-like vibe with a flat tip for maximum clit stimulation that'll confirm Kiki in fact, DOES love you and likes taking you to your next orgasm.

    Lelo

    Get it from Lelo for $19.97 (originally $39.95, available in three colors).

    8. A dual vibe to surround your clit with the greatest vibrations man has ever known. Kind of like surround sound, but for sex.

    Babeland

    The vibrations on this baby aren't super strong, so if you're just getting your feet wet, this would be perfect!

    Promising review: "The silicone surface is soft, non-irritating to my sensitive skin, easy to clean, and fast to dry. The size allows for a good balance of power vs. discretion. I also found that it wasn't particularly demanding in terms of lubrication; it didn't require a thick lube to make it comfortable to use, which was nice for me. I liked the diversity of vibration settings, which range from a low whir through an intense buzz and then from low- to high-intensity pulses. I particularly appreciated the way the sensations from the dual-motor design responded to manual variations in pressure; squeezing the two ears made a noticeable difference in the intensity of the vibration, effectively doubling the sensation possibilities. The ears are designed for clitoral stimulation, and I found that they performed admirably for that. If your clit gets over-sensitized (or under-sensitized) from multiple orgasms or repeated stimulation, the versatility of gripping and touching patterns will be very helpful; it's one of the selling points of the toy, and it didn't disappoint. It was like clitoral surround sound, which is, frankly, baller." —April

    Get it from Babeland for $59 (available in two colors).

    9. A hand dildo. You'd use your own, but it gets tired sometimes and this right here is sturdy silicone.

    Amazon

    Plus it's perfect for fisting if you're into it!

    Promising review: "My girlfriend absolutely loves this. She first purchased the closed fist but was unable to fully fit it in. She decided to try this open fist which she can fully fit in and use it to work up to the closed fist." —Toxic

    Get it from Amazon for $23.05 (available in five colors).

    10. A "butterfly kiss" massager to gently but consistently press upon your sensitive bits until you say stop.

    Amazon

    Promising review: "This is a keeper. It's perfect for stimulating simultaneous orgasms and didn't even need the highest speed." —laura long

    Get it from Amazon for $11.99 (available in two colors).

    11. A Satisfyer Pro 2, a truly touch-free clit stimulator with super-cool vacuum technology for an intense end to your ~private time~. Who needs oral when you have this, baby?

    Amazon

    Are your toes curling yet?

    Promising review: "This is, by far, the best clitoral stimulator I have ever had the chance to try. Ladies, I would recommend this for any of you who prefer clitoral stimulation. It has plenty of settings, but even the first setting is enough for me to have an orgasm almost immediately. It's completely waterproof and very easy to clean!" —C.G.

    Get it from Amazon for $35.95.

    Check out our post on this clit-sucking sex toy here!

    12. A lipstick massager complete with multiple speed patterns you can absolutely take on vacation to make it even more ~relaxing~.

    Lelo

    It's waterproof, USB-rechargeable, and has six vibration patterns.

    Promising review: "Surprisingly powerful. It has lots of speed options, as well as different vibration patterns. This is a great little secret toy because it looks like a lipstick or a USB drive. It charges quickly and lasts for a good 45 minutes before it starts to fade. I think eventually I'll upgrade to a larger, more powerful LELO model, but this is a great starter toy." —Mimi Kanasis

    Get it from Lelo for $59.43 (originally $84.90, available in four colors).

    13. An oral sex stimulator, because it isn't just foreplay, you heathens, it's the main event. Multiple orgasms are just a vibration away!

    Amazon

    Includes 10 vibrating modes and is totally waterproof!

    Promising review: "I love this toy; it doesn't look like a toy. You can lay it out and because of the shape of it, no one knows what exactly it is unless they have one. Every time I use it, I have a fantastic orgasm." —Wendy

    Get it from Lelo for $132.30 (originally $189, available in three colors).

    14. A pack of the cutest tenga eggs to assist you in, well...beating your meat every which way.

    Amazon

    Includes six different patterns because variety is the spice of life.


    Promising review:
    "My boyfriend loves the different textures, and we both love that we can easily spice up a sex session by using this toy." —Danalynn

    Get them from Amazon for $28.99.

    15. A beginner's strap-on you and your partner can enjoy... together. It even has a flared base for a little backdoor action.

    Amazon

    And who doesn't like a tossed salad?

    Promising review: "This is our first strap-on purchase. The wife was a little hesitant but liked the color, so that seemed to put her at ease. We both love the transfer of control this toy gives us and I am sure it will become a bedroom favorite. Feels amazing and has a tapered profile to break you in gently and rubs just the right spots." —NewDirectionCouple

    Get it from Lovehoney for $39.99.

    16. A kinky handcuff and blindfold set for when you wanna get your 50 Shades of Grey on in real time.

    Amazon

    Because in the corny words of Christian Grey himself, "I don't make love, I fuck. Hard." Bye!

    Promising review: "Works great. Exactly as you would expect. The chain is just a touch on the lightweight side. I imagine they could be forcibly broken if you really wanted to, but for a consensual play date, both the mask and cuffs worked great." —Nick

    Get them from Amazon for $13.99 (available in three colors).

    17. A tighter version of the Fleshlight to jack into till the crows come home, because it's the magnum opus to penis owners everywhere.

    Amazon

    Promising review: "I love my mini lotus and literally use it every morning. I recommend actually thrusting into rather than just stroking yourself to get a much more intense and enjoyable experience. The smooth texture compared to some of Fleshlight's textured ones actually works really well since it lets me thrust deeper and faster without finishing. This also means longer sessions. It uses a lot of lube though." —Jay s

    Get it from Amazon for $69.95 (original available here).

    18. An anal plug set so you can start to stretch your bootyhole in all the right ways.

    Amazon

    Includes small, medium, large, and extra large anal plugs along with lube and an enema bottle to clean yourself out before you roll deep into ~ecstasy~.

    Promising review: "They're so silky to the touch, which will make insertion easy. Bonus points since it comes with its own lube and enema bottle." —Amazon Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $12.99.

    19. A clitoral vibe with 10 different settings and five intensities so you can hum and moan all night, since you love variety.

    Amazon

    Promising review: "This product is great for first-time users. There are a ton of settings and it is so easy to use! Absolutely loved the packaging and the size of the toy is great for bringing on the go. I would highly recommend this toy to anyone in the market for something new!" —N

    Get it from Amazon for $44.99 (available in four colors).

    20. A fancy rabbit vibe with eight different speeds and sensations for that double orgasm you've been waiting for.

    Lelo

    Promising review: "This thing is whisper-quiet, powerful, waterproof, and the material feels amazing. It’s expensive but worth every penny. Treat yourself. You won’t regret it." —Meesh

    Get it from Amazon for $153.89 or Lelo for $151.20 (originally $189, available in four colors).

    When you finally get off with one of these toys...

    ABC

    Yolo, am I right?

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    Amazon

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