Nifty·Posted on Feb 18, 201425 Problems Only Bridesmaids Will UnderstandSo much drama and it isn't even your wedding.by Heather SpohrBuzzFeed ContributorFacebookPinterestTwitterMailLink 1. Dealing with the bridesmaid hierarchy. Universal Pictures / Via mynewplaidpants.blogspot.com Each 'maid is fighting like hell to prove she's the bride's best friend. 2. All of your free time will be dedicated to wedding activities. Sweet Chic Events / Via sweetchicevents.com 3. …and all of your disposable income too. Memorable Gifts / Via memorablegifts.com You're OK with eating Top Ramen for the next year, right? 4. In fact, you might as well get a job here, just for the discount. Somerset Collection / Via thesomersetcollection.com Engagement gifts...shower gifts...wedding gifts...yep, you're gonna need that discount. 5. The bridesmaid dress will not be flattering for your body type. Flickr: adrianblack 6. And it isn't cheap. list4all.com / Via list4all.com On second thought, maybe you should get a job at a dress shop. 7. But don't worry, you'll totally wear it again. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Twentieth Century Fox / Via youtube.com ...as a Halloween costume. 8. Helping plan the 8,000 events. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF NBC / Via madamenoire.com Engagement parties! Bridal showers! Bachelorette! Gah! 9. Joint Pinterest boards and mailing lists. beforethebigday.co.uk / Via blogger.com Every detail has to be perfect, and every bridesmaid has a different idea of what "perfect" is. 10. Bridal showers that don't have alcohol. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Bravo / Via perezhilton.com 11. Squealing over the bride's presents. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Comedy Central / Via imgur.com Cutlery! A toaster! SQUEEEEEE eh. 12. Making small talk with relatives of the bride and groom. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Bravo / Via alissaerin.blogspot.com This is why you need alcohol. 13. Wearing/using a penis accessory in public. Flickr: morganrochele It ain't dignified. 14. Strippers Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF NBC / Via youtube.com They're never as advertised. 15. Even the best brides go crazy sometimes. ulsterherald.com At some point you'll seriously wonder how you're friends with this person. 16. Not rolling your eyes when the bride tells you she wants to flash mob down the aisle. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Fox / Via gleeforum.com "Great idea! No one has ever done that before!" 17. Your face hurting from all the smiling. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF The CW / Via reactiongifs.com Say cheese! Again! And again! AND AGAIN! 18. And seeing spots from all the flash photography. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF theberry.com Your vision might be permanently destroyed. 19. Writing a meaningful speech. Flickr: gearys If you don't make everyone cry, you've failed. 20. Helping the bride go to the bathroom. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Universal Pictures / Via tumblr.com The groom isn't the only one who gets intimate with the bride on the big day. 21. Keeping the bride's feuding family members from ruining the wedding. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Via youtube.com 22. Drunk groomsmen. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF youtube.com Group photos with guys who can't stand up are always a blast. 23. Drunk bridesmaids. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Via newgifs.com Great. Someone else to help in the bathroom. 24. Uncomfortable shoes. Flickr: nejireta But at least they're all perfectly dyed to match! 25. Crying off your makeup because you're so happy for the newlyweds. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Warner Bros. / Via ineedthisforreactions.tumblr.com You were just an integral part of one of the most important days in a person's life. How could you not be happy?