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    How Not To F**K Up A Relationship!

    Claudia Ladzik, Emily Brennan & Gabrielle Maloney

    1. You should ALWAYS be listening to your partner.

    2. Blaming never works in a relationship.

    3. Don’t nag your partner.

    4. Infidelity is NEVER the way.

    5. No criticism is needed in a relationship.

    6. Deal with issues as they emerge.

    7. Effective communication is KEY! Learn how to talk to your partner.

    8. Healthy self-disclosure can bring you and your partner closer in more ways than one.

    If you follow these steps, your relationship will last longer than Kim Kardashian's first marriage.