This post has not been vetted or endorsed by BuzzFeed's editorial staff. BuzzFeed Community is a place where anyone can create a post or quiz. Try making your own!Community·Posted on Oct 10, 2016How Not To F**K Up A Relationship!Claudia Ladzik, Emily Brennan & Gabrielle Maloneyby HDFSIllinoisCommunity ContributorLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. You should ALWAYS be listening to your partner. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 2. Blaming never works in a relationship. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 3. Don’t nag your partner. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 4. Infidelity is NEVER the way. 5. No criticism is needed in a relationship. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 6. Deal with issues as they emerge. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 7. Effective communication is KEY! Learn how to talk to your partner. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. Healthy self-disclosure can bring you and your partner closer in more ways than one. If you follow these steps, your relationship will last longer than Kim Kardashian's first marriage. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF