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    24 Things That’ll Warm Your Gender Nonconforming Heart

    From my heart to yours.

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    1. An adorable and empowering "Say it with Pride" tapestry to hang in your home for a big dose of pride!

    the tapestry which says "Say it with Pride" hanging on a wall with an illustration of a gender diverse person holding the bisexual pride flag
    fabulouslygay / Via Redbubble

    Get it from fabulouslygay on Redbubble for $31.21+ (available in three sizes).

    2. A trans pride riot shirt you'll want to wear every day in honor of Marsha P. and all of our ancestors who fought for trans rights.

    a model wearing the T-shirt with a blue, pink, and white fist surrounded by the words "the first pride was a riot"
    A Tribe Called Queer

    A Tribe Called Queer was created by Sabine Maxine. They offer a line of everyday T-shirts with important messages centering the Black Queer community and movement. A portion of proceeds from their sales go directly to organizations such as Black Lives Matter and ProjectQ, which provides services and resources to homeless LGBTQIA+ youth.

    Get it from A Tribe Called Queer for $35 (available in sizes S-5X).

    3. A genderflux beehive pillow or nonbinary bees pillow designed with your cute aesthetic in mind!

    TinyPhoenix / Via Redbubble

    Get them from TinyPhoenix on Redbubble: the genderflux pride bees pillow for $21.65+ (available in five sizes) or the nonbinary bees pillow for $21.65+ (available in five sizes).

    4. A box of aromatic Tea Drops to warm you up and give you an effortless, perfect cup of tea at the end of a long day. Each tea drop has loose leaf organic tea, raw sugar, and spices — and they come in cute shapes!

    an open box of Tea Drops

    The sampler set includes eight tea drops, two of each: Energizing Matcha Green Tea (caffeinated), Calming Rose Earl Grey (caffeinated), Refreshing Citrus Ginger (caffeine-free), and Cooling Sweet Peppermint (caffeine-free).

    Promising review: "Tea Drops + an electric kettle equals a super simple and mess-free way to prepare your tea. Especially in the mornings when you're getting yourself together or in a hurry. Taste is on point, doesn't need any sweeteners. Overall very smooth teas. You do get a few tea particles at the bottom of your cup, which I thought might be an issue, but it turned out not to be troublesome at all. I would definitely recommend it!" —Arpan

    Get an eight-pack from Amazon for $16.99+.

    5. A pair of gender-neutral Outerspace undies THAT GLOW IN THE DARK for anyone who didn't know they absolutely need glowing space undies until...well, now. The heart wants what it wants!


    Rodeoh is a gender-neutral shop that sells underwear, gender-affirming packers, harnesses, and sex toys.

    Get them from Rodeoh for $19.99 (available in sizes XS-XL).

    6. A trans plant sweater out to prove that trans, GNC, and gender diverse people are worthy of respect and unconditional love, and really good at puns 🌱.

    Rose modeling the trans plant sweater in blue which has a little sprout growing out of a pot with a trans flag on the right side of the plant
    Rosalynne Montoya

    Rosalynne (Rose, she/her or they/them) is a Latinx, bisexual, nonbinary transgender woman who works as a model, makeup artist, and content creator. Her goal is to spread love and education about her community as she shares her story, and this sweater is from her shop!

    Get it from Rosalynne Montoya for $30 (available in sizes S-5XL and four colors).

    7. A "You Can Do All Things" book featuring empowering animals and characters who will give you and your heart some much-needed hope and affirmations. I recently gave this book to my mom and my partner during hard times, and they both loved it.


    Promising review: "This book is so beautiful. I felt the words all the way to my soul, and the images filled me with the hope I didn't realize I was starving for. I want to buy a copy for so many people in my life, and I probably will. I bought the Kindle version because I was so excited that I just couldn't wait for the hardcover to arrive, and let me tell you, the illustrations deserve to be on display. I plan on ordering the hard copy for my home." —Lyra

    Get it from Amazon for $17.99.

    8. A demi boy pride hat for any and all demi boys out there to wear all year long!

    a black hat that says demi with the demi boy pride colors on the brim (dark gray, light gray, blue, and white)
    The Queerest Gear / Via Etsy

    The Queerest Gear is an LGBTQ+ run Etsy shop that sells apparel and accessories.

    Promising review: "ABSOLUTELY IN LOVE thank you so much for representing Demiboy pride. I can't wait to wear it all the time and next year for pride." —Shelby Janikowski

    Get it from The Queerest Gear on Etsy for $35.

    9. A Box O'Donuts eyeshadow palette to help you create endless amounts of fierce looks. This palette was created by BatMe, the first Black trans-owned beauty brand in the country.


    BatMe is a Black-owned cosmetic company founded by Jayla Roxx that embraces every gender, race, and religion. BatMe offers affordable, vegan-based, gluten- and cruelty-free products to spark and spread joy across the LGBTQIA+ community and beyond!

    Get it from BatMe for $35.

    10. A They/Them sweater and a protect trans kid sweater that'll make you feel cozy and loved. 50% of the proceeds are donated to The Okra Project.

    megemiko / Via Etsy

    Get them from megemiko on Etsy: the they/them sweater for $28 (available in sizes S-5X and eight colors) and the Protect trans kids sweater for $28 (available in sizes S-5X and eight colors).

    11. A "Daddy has no gender" sticker for anyone who needs an affirming reminder that cisgenderism and heteronormativity have no place or power over who is Daddy. They can be Daddy, she can be Daddy, he can be Daddy, and so on!

    a hand holding the "Daddy has no gender" sticker with the wording over a pair of black boots
    ButchStickersShop / Via Etsy

    Get it from ButchStickersShop on Etsy for $1.52.

    12. Fluide's Radical Rest collection to treat yourself to vegan, highly-pigmented liquid lip and nail polish trios, and a precious candle as well. You'll also be honoring Black trans women and their right to joy, safety, and rest with your purchase.


    Fluide is a queer-run, trans-friendly beauty brand on a mission to make makeup and beauty products accessible and fun for folks of all skin-tones and genders. All of their beauty products are vegan, cruelty-free, paraben-free, and phthalate-free.

    The Radical Rest collection includes the Child of the Universe candle, Attraction liquid lip, Abundance liquid lip, Expansion liquid lip, and the Coffehouse trio nail polish set. 20% of sales from the Radical Rest collection go towards For The Gworls, a platform connecting and raising money for the Black trans community.

    Get it from Fluide for $60.

    13. An adorable nonbinary or asexual Umbreon pin Pokémon fans will squee over. It's so darn cute!

    a Umbreon pin with options for Umbreon to hold the nonbinary or asexual pride flag in their mouth
    Irisidium / Via Etsy

    Promising review: "SOO CUTE!! One of the best pins I've owned! It was nicely packaged and came fairly fast. I'll definitely be buying again." —Andalyne

    Get it from Irisidium on Etsy for $12.72+ (available in nonbinary, asexual, or bisexual pride flag style).

    14. A Decolonizing Fitness muscle tank that'll help you power through workouts, yoga sessions, and hikes.

    a model wearing the muscle tank and flexing their arms
    Decolonizing fitness

    Decolonizing Fitness is a Black trans-owned business offering affirming and accessible services, webinars, and fitness and (virtual) personal training classes in support of trans and gender diverse people.

    Get the muscle tank from Decolonizing Fitness for $25 (available in sizes XS-4X).

    15. A light therapy lamp you may find gives you and anyone around it a mood boost. It's UV-free, yet the light is designed to mimic a bright sunny day and help keep your energy levels up.


    Get this in my house immediately, thanks.

    Promising review: "I have been using this therapy lamp for about a week now, and I have noticed a considerable improvement in my mood. I find that 30 minutes works the best for me. As far as the lamp itself goes, it is well made and has three brightness settings. It doesn’t get hot. I have mine sitting on a wooden base in the photo, but only for decorative reasons. I am a grad student in psychology and I am always looking for things that can help people. I believe this one really does." —Mandy Ashcraft

    Get it from Amazon for $42.99.

    16. A "Frog and Toad Are Gay" shirt I certainly must purchase, as will anyone who is on a mission to spread the truth we've all known deep in our hearts since reading "Frog and Toad" as young queer angels.

    a model wearing the tan shirt that reads "Frog and Toad are gay" with a heart-shaped image of Frog and Toad in the center
    Queerest Gear / Via Etsy

    And again — just so we're clear, the truth is that Frog and Toad are really, really, gay.

    Promising review: "Love the shirt! Fits well and the graphic is awesome!" —Jack

    Get it from The Queerest Gear on Etsy for $25 (available in sizes S-4X).

    17. An extra-large rainbow stress ball you'll squeeze, toss, and stim with to your heart's content.

    a child holding the large rainbow stress ball

    Promising review: "I bought this on a whim for my teenage son for a smaller Christmas gift. He loves it! It definitely has the stress ball element but because of its size and density, he and his friends love playing with it too. They play catch and a dodgeball like game that they call Arghh Ball. He took it with us to the mountains and I notice he usually takes it when going to a friend’s house. He’s only had it for a few weeks. It has been used so much and taken quite a beating but has held up really well. I will definitely be buying a couple more." —Amazon Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $13.95.

    18. A three-pack of superhero undies because loving superheroes and the Spider-Verse isn't gendered, and can be enjoyed by everyone! These undies come with built-in compression padding meant for anyone who tucks to wear (without tucking) and live their best life.

    a three-pack of super-hero themed underwear, including a batman and spiderman themed pair
    LeoLines / Via Etsy

    Promising review: "My daughter LOVES these. She is eight and obsessed with superheroes and the Spider-Verse. She’s been wearing LeoLines since she was five and they are the only ones she will wear. Thank you so much!!!" —Jessica

    Get them from LeoLines on Etsy for $55.35+ (available in child to adult sizes AXL-C2).

    19. A femmes can be thems magnet for all my fellow nonbinary femmes out there who deserve to feel seen and have their pronouns respected AT ALL TIMES. Put one on every fridge IMO.

    the "Femmes can be Thems" magnet on a purple heart on a fridge
    JitterJuneBug / Via Redbubble

    Get it from JitterJuneBug on Redbubble for $7.

    20. A houndstooth vest to keep you styled like the GNC qt you absolutely are! Pair this fully-lined vest with jeans for a casual yet powerful look, or wear it with suit pants for a profesh and put-together outfit.

    a model wearing the empower blazer in houndstooth print

    Get it from Wildfang for $88 (available in sizes XS-XXL and five prints).

    21. A cute and handsome genderless merperson sticker because merpeople are powerful and hella trans.

    a holographic sticker that reads "gender me not" and shows a merperson with top surgery scars
    lilboyblueish / Via Etsy

    Another truth I've always known!

    Get it from lilboyblueish on Etsy for $3.25.

    22. A monthly Introverts Retreat subscription that'll send a novel, wellness goodies, and treats right to your door and make your month, every month. No such thing as too much "me time" if you ask me!

    baht salts, beauty products, chocolates, sunflower seeds, candles, and other items in the box

    What you get: Each box features a novel written in your choice of genre: fiction, romance, mystery/thriller, YA, or a surprise genre each month. You can pick a specific book from their collection as well. You'll also get bath and body products, chocolates and other goodies, a bookmark, and your choice of warm beverage (hot cocoa, tea, of coffee) with each box!

    Promising review: "This box was so thoughtful! Receiving it in the mail (very fast shipping and great packaging) was such a treat. The items are all high-quality and the candle, soap, and body scrub I received smell amazing. Thank you for the treat!" —Danielle R.

    Get it from Cratejoy for $14.99+/month.

    23. A limited-edition trans pride half binder I am swooning over, as will anyone else who binds! I recently passed down my first gc2b binder and can vouch for their binders being the best on the market.


    Promising review: "This was my first binder and I frickin love it. I’m nonbinary and I have top dysphoria so I decided to get a binder. Considering it literally squishes your chest down to nothing, I thought it would be very uncomfortable but I was wrong. It’s very comfy and I will definitely be buying from gc2b again." —Jupiter

    Get it from gc2b for $40 (available in sizes XS-5XL).

    24. And a pair of buttery soft gender-neutral lounge pants I personally swear by for naps, snuggles, and WFH sessions. Since the moment I tried them on I decided other pants don't exist to me anymore. They are that comfy!

    the author wearing the gray pants with a lavender waistband and drawstring
    Harper Hendrickson / Via BuzzFeed

    The lavender waistband is my fave.

    Get them from Jambys for $87 (available in sizes XS-XXL and five colors).

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