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    22 Sex Toys Queer People Swear By

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    1. A waterproof Satisfyer pro that just may help you achieve the climax of your dreams! This toy is designed to suck and works with folks who have bottom growth.

    the pink Satisfyer pro toy submerged in water

    Promising review: "This baby honestly restored my faith in being able to get off. As with other reviewers, I take medication that makes it pretty difficult to orgasm. Bought this on a whim hoping that it would change things, and hoo buddy, did it. Had probably the fastest orgasm with my first time using it, and have yet to use the highest setting on it because it works so fast. As for the sensation, it's like a thumping feeling more than it is a sucking feeling. I'm a trans man, so my pieces and parts are a bit on the larger side, and I didn't really need to use lube to provide ease with use. 10/10 would highly recommend." —PEN

    Get it from Amazon for $29.95.

    2. A classic magic wand worthy of being a part of every queer person's arsenal of sex toys IMO (and according to VERY satisfied reviewers).

    the blue and white Magic wand

    Promising review: "Being part of the trans community I was already aware of how trans girls seem to put this thing on a pedestal and regard it as a holy artifact but I never thought to get one myself. I had the money so I thought what the hell, I'll try it. I blew my mind, I never considered I could feel such sensations." —abby

    Get it from Amazon for $59.95.

    3. A posable, packable Shiloh dildo boasting 8 inches of insertable length. This toy is one of the most flexible toys on the market, but is still firm enough to hit all of your (or your partner's) spots!

    four of the dildos in various skin tone shades with the toys bent over to show how posable they are

    Promising review: "My partner has this dildo and I love it! It feels really good to the touch and has a realistic feel. It has the flexibility to accommodate different positions, angles, and shapes, but it's still very firm (not floppy feeling). Because of its soft texture, it feels smooth for penetration." —India

    Get it from Babeland for $174.99 (available in four shades).

    4. A flexible Bender toy with all the multi-speed and waterproof capabilities you need to orgasm like never before. This vibe is designed for internal use but is bendy enough to stimulate multiple spots simultaneously!

    a hand holding the flexible bendy toy in mint green color
    Unbound Babes

    Promising review: "I had my partner use this toy on me and OH MY GOD it was amazing. I like that it bends and has a variety of vibration patterns. I experienced a truly leg-shaking orgasm and cannot wait to try it out more. I had been holding out on buying this for a while, but I am extremely pleased that I finally got one. 10/10." —B.B.

    Get it from Unbound Babes for $69.

    5. A golden rabbit vibe that'll have your eyes rolling in the back of your head quicker than a jackrabbit.

    the silicone rabbit vibrator in gold with a hard black plastic base
    Love Honey

    Promising review: "Why didn’t I buy this five years ago? Hands down the best affordable toy! I use this thing more than Starbucks uses their espresso machines. Both my girlfriend and I are lucky to last more than two minutes. The battery lasted way longer than I anticipated! It's rechargeable and you only need to charge it once a week. Buy. It. Now. If you can go back in time and buy it yesterday, do that." —Rroxy

    Get it from Love Honey for $99.99 (available in three colors).

    6. A versatile and vibrating princette sex toy designed for all bodies and all genders. You can use is as an external or penetrative vibe and discover new euphoric heights!

    the light blue princette toy
    Cute Little Fuckers

    This toy is was made by a queer-owned shop and it's designed for all genders. The princette can be used as a vibrating butt plug, a stand-alone vibe, a vibe for external stimulation and penetration, and much more!

    Promising review: "As a trans man, I find this is amazing and definitely worth the cost." —Connor

    Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $69.

    7. A comfortable and adjustable strap-on joque harness reviewers adore — you'll barely feel it's there while in use, and it's machine-washable!

    a mannequin wearing the black strap on with a purple dildo

    My partner and I have this harness and it's definitely a winner, they love it a lot. I found it a little small and recommend the Prince Jag harness over this one for folks who are working with larger parts/bottom growth. But if that's not you and you are looking for a strap on that goes on with no fuss, stays in place, and is super comfy, the joque strap is for you!

    Promising review: "So I started wearing this harness when I was a size 18 in pants. I am now a size 12 and this harness is adjustable and still fits great after about four years. I love the sporty look. Also! It is machine washable and leaves my butt available for play while I am strapping, so it's poly-friendly and great for when I am the meat in a sexy sandwich. Also, there is a pocket in the front of the harness for my We-Vibe Wish or Yoru. I also love the way it makes my butt look, it totally gives me a bubble butt." —Anonymous

    Get it from Babeland for $124.95 (available in two sizes and two colors).

    8. And a Mustang Royale dildo reviewers swear by for strap-on play as well as getting off solo, thanks to the saddle base designed to bring pleasure to the wearer.

    a hand holding the Mustang Royale dildo with a flared purple base
    The Pleasure Chest

    Promising review: "For those of us who don’t enjoy pointlessly large bases on a dildo, this manages to make the whole toy feel functional all the way through. I own the Commando Harness by Aslan Leather and this made wearing that particular harness more comfortable and more pleasurable. Because the saddle base is super squishy, it pushed on the right places without feeling intrusive. It was pleasurable but not orgasmic, exactly. A bit of lube made the friction feel better and infinitely more participatory. For those who like to jerk off wearing a dildo, I think this would be your new favorite thing, too." —Shawné

    Get it from The Pleasure Chest for $127.95 (available in three colors).

    9. A mini glitter wand with seven patterns and 10 intensity levels so you can take control of your orgasms, wherever you are. Reviewers really love how quiet and discreet this wand is!

    the mini glittery wand in purple
    Love Honey

    Promising review: "So much about this is brilliant. It’s a perfect size, and totally not intimidating. As an ace girl I don’t like things looking too frightening and purchasing this was a HUGE step for me but equally the best decision I ever made. The settings are varied, good choice of patterns I play a slightly different way each time which keeps things interesting. Six months in and I still get excited using it. I love that it’s quiet, simple (three button system which is easy to feel and manage), and above all it gets me there and holds me there for as long as I like.... before crashing into super satisfying worlds of joy. Oh, and I like the pretty colors!" —Cathy

    Get it from Love Honey for $49.99 (available in five colors).

    10. A versatile two-in-one stroker designed to work with or without bottom growth (it will suction onto anatomy at least 1/2″ in diameter), so you can use it to pack, stroke, or play in a whole new way.

    New York Toy Collective

    Promising review: "The texture and size were great for solo play, Jack gave a nice amount of suction when squeezed, and also felt amazing with a vibrator applied to the outside. The only stroker I’ve ever used that actually worked for my body. When I wore Jack with the NYTC packing strap, I was able to position it so that my bits were lined up with the hole, and it gave a nice direct pressure sensation during normal wear. It wasn’t an intense arousal sensation, it just transferred any pressure on the packer to my phallus, rather than a normal packer, which transfers pressure to my mons. The packing strap did a surprisingly good job of keeping it in place inside pants while walking and sitting, and the strap wasn’t visible while I was just wearing briefs. Overall a great packing experience, if you don’t mind a small packer, which I prefer." —Harry

    Get it from New York Toy Collective for $59 (available in four skin tones).

    11. And a silver stroker made for trans masc folks who want a stroker in a non-realistic color scheme!

    the phallic stroker in gray, silver, and black
    Fascinus Silicone / Via Etsy

    Promising review: "Any trans guys debating on getting this: Do itttttt. Holy frick frack I really underestimated it. I wasn't sure if I'd like it gosh I finished in like five minutes when it usually takes 30 or 40, also it's the perfect size for my bottom growth and helps with dysphoria so much. This is such a life changer 💖💖💖💖." —Riven Corvus

    Get it from Fascinus Silicone on Etsy for $26.

    12. A remote control We Vibe you won't be able to put down, whether you're using it solo or with a long-distance partner (you can control the vibe from far away via an app). If you like toys with deep rumbly feelings and unlimited patterns, this one is worth the splurge.

    a hand holding the purple We Vibe with a remote control
    Love Honey

    Promising review: "The We-Vibe Chorus is an absolutely fantastic piece of sex tech! This is indeed a wearable couples vibrator at a luxury level. Despite it being described as 'ideal for heterosexual couples,' I find this idea limiting, and I have personally been able to enjoy it with a wide range of partners (and solo!) This is the best C-shaped couples vibe yet! Included with my chorus were a nifty little charging dock, remote control, and instruction booklet. Both the clit arm and the G-spot stimulator deliver quite a punch. No matter what setting you find yourself on, both arms distribute a satisfying and equal amount of vibration. Without the app the Chorus can offer you 10 very rumbly settings to choose from, but with the We-Vibe app you have access to unlimited patterns while connected. Which is where the *real* fun begins. I enjoyed using this solo, and handing over complete control to my partner over the app while they were away. You or your partner can also pick different songs in 'beat mode,' which is a load of fun. Adding app-enabled toys has done wonders for our sex life, and has added something I didn’t even know we needed. I highly recommend this for couples in long-distance relationships, but's a wonderful investment for everyone in my opinion. The modern (elegant even) look and feel of this toy is really opulent, and you get absolutely everything you pay for. I would not hesitate to re-purchase this toy at full price. We-Vibe has my heart, and my wallet." —Marie F.

    Get it from Love Honey for $199.99 (available in three colors).

    13. A designed to suck BJ dildo ready to give you all the gender europhia you deserve to feel while getting off! This toy suctions onto your parts to give you a phenomenal blow job experience while a partner sucks on the toy, or you can use it solo and create a similar sensation with your hands.

    seven the BJ Dildos in various colors
    Number One Laboratory

    Promising review: "I had no idea how much gender euphoria something like this could give me. It *can* be used for solo play, just keep a finger over the hole at the tip. I absolutely love this." —Bridget Rose

    Get it from Number One Laboratory for $100 (available in four colors and in cut and uncut)

    14. A hypoallergenic, vegan, fragrance-free lube reviewers with sensitivities and sensitive skin absolutely swear by, as do I! Once I tried this lube I never wanted to use another — it's not sticky and it is everything a lube should be, minus any potential irritants.

    the clear bottle of Sliquid lube with a blue label
    Love Honey

    Promising review: "This is my new favorite water-based lube! I love that it's able to be reactivated with a little spit during sex, and it feels so much better than drugstore water-based lubes I've tried. It doesn't have a scent or taste, which is awesome! I've used this alone and with a partner. I haven't tried it with anal sex, but I've used it for PIV sex, strap-on penetration, etc." — Autostraddler55

    Get it from Love Honey for $22.99.

    15. A strapless strap on that'll bring on lots of sensations, moans, and eye rolls for the wearer. Reviewers say they can get off just by jerking the dildo, so def add this to your list of top toys for partners and masturbation sessions!

    a hand holding the rechargeable strapless strap on which is purple and has rabbit ears for stimulation
    Love Honey

    Promising review: "For any trans, nonbinary, or genderqueer people, this is a lifesaver. When you are wearing this, you can get a lot of pleasure and sensation through touching and jerking the dildo. It definitely helps reduce feelings of dysphoria and provides satisfying mental and physical sensations. I have not put it to use with a partner, but I very much doubt it is ideal for sex. The position of the dildo and the pelvic strength required to keep the other end inside you don't lend themselves well to fucking, but this is a problem for all strapless straps. It would probably work well for riding and blowjobs." —Queerantine

    Get it from Love Honey for $99.99.

    16. A 9-inch dildo realistic dildo queer folks adore for strap-on use. Not to mention it has a suction cup, so really the possibilities of you going for the big O with this baby are endless.

    a hand gripping the realistic dildo

    Promising review: "Love, love, love! Soft and squishy in all the right places. Mine came from a more pigmented batch and if it was a tad darker it would match my skin tone perfectly! Trans men and lesbians this is it, this is the perfect strap that won't break the bank. Honestly, I might buy a second one, one for home and one for the overnight bag. Not even a huge fan of penetration but this dildo got me reconsidering." —Finn

    Get it from Amazon for $22.99.

    17. A trans masc pump designed to surround and enlarge transdicks and bottom growth of all sizes. Both reviewers on and not on T love it!

    New York Toy Collective

    Promising review: "Love this. It actually works really well for me because I have significant growth but I don’t see why it wouldn’t work just as well for those without. Would definitely recommend!" —Mo

    Get it from New York Toy Collective for $29.99.

    18. A brief-style strap-on with a versatile O-ring ideal for anyone looking for a comfy strap that offers more coverage, and is compatible with a variety of different sized toys.

    a model wearing the strap on with an o-ring

    Promising review: "Ok so I have been shopping for something my girlfriend and I would both be comfortable using. This by far is the best I have tried and will be buying more of. It's easy to just have on and ready to use no more stopping in the middle of the heat of the moment just to start up. With this I can have them on and have the dildo tucked away until I'm ready to use it. It's nice and snug and fits just right." —Tab

    Get it from Amazon for $23.99+ (available in three sizes).

    19. A love bump with the perfect place for a bullet vibe so you can take your next sex sesh to another level of sensation that you and your partner will enjoy.

    a hand holding the love bump which has a stretchy ring for wear and a bullet vibe inserted into the toy
    New York Toy Collective

    Promising review: "I feel like I’ve been missing out my entire adult life before this thing. Not only do they hang and swing in a pleasing way (which is nice for my identity as a trans man) but when I’m intimate with someone they create a new level of sensation that has led to some very exciting results. The design is completely genius. Thanks, NYTC!" —Griff

    Get it from New York Toy Collective for $49.99+ (available in seven colors).

    20. A smooth trinity vibe made by queer folks for queer folks! This vibe has a flared base for anal and strap-on play, and ridges to stimulate you on your wild ride.

    a model holding the vibe while laying in bed
    Cute Little Fuckers

    It's also waterproof, quiet, USB rechargeable, and comes with an interchangeable vibrator.

    Promising review: "I LOVE Trinity, and am so happy with my purchase. As soon as I saw the listing I knew this had to be mine. Beautifully made and designed, and cute enough (as well as discreet, depending on the type of person you are) to be left out on the bedside table when not in use, which I totally do! Trinity reminds me to take time for myself and my body." —LJ Woolcock

    Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $79.

    21. An affirming STP reviewers who are new to stand to pee devices can't get enough of. It won't break the bank and is flexible enough to pack with as well.


    Promising review: "I purchased this for a partner and they loved it, it is easy to clean since it is made out of silicone. Really flexible which makes packing it up and carrying it around a breeze. The hole in the tip is perfect because it is really wide, so there is less chance of overflow." —Anonymous

    Get it from Babeland for $56 (available in three shades).

    22. And a small but mighty waterproof mini wand you just may tell every other gay in a 50-mile radius about, because this little powerhouse has a setting for everyone!

    a reviewer holding the black mini wand

    Promising review: "So I’m a lesbian. It’s fun for me to share toys with my partners. This toy has many speeds and patterns that helped us find a setting we both enjoyed. This toy is AMAZING. I’ve used wands before, they tend to be too powerful and leave painful, swollen lady parts if we use them too much. Definitely not the case for this toy! This toy was damn near perfect. It’s awesome in size as well. Especially if you share it with someone. I have already recommended it to most of my friends, only after my first time using it! ❤️" —Rad_dad

    Get it from Amazon for $37.77 (available in four colors).

    Me reading about these toys bringing queer folks gender europhia and other pleasant *vibes*:

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