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Women, Tell Us About The Moment You Realized You Were On A Date With A "Nice Guy"

Maybe you never got past the first m'lady.

If you're a woman, chances are you've had your fair share of encounters with "nice guys." And no, I'm not talking about guys that are nice. I'm talking about entitled creeps who love to emphasize how "nice" they are, then immediately turn around and become hostile once they feel rejected.

But one of the worst parts of a "nice guy" is that sometimes you can't recognize them at first. Maybe they really do seem nice or charming. Maybe they're missing the signature fedora.

Ladies who have been on a date with a "nice guy," or were getting to know them in some way, what made you realize they were in fact a "nice guy"?

Did they try to order for you and turn angry when you said you preferred to order for yourself?

Did they spend your first meeting bragging about how into ~women's rights~ they are and everything they've done for women everywhere?

Maybe you were just hanging out as friends, trying to see if you even liked them, and they started insulting you the second you told them you didn't want to do anything physical.

Whatever your experience was, we want to hear it. Let us know how your date/new friend revealed themselves as a "nice guy" to you, and what you did in the comments below, and you could be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post.