We've all been there. You match with someone new on a dating app, and you strike up a conversation hoping to get to know them. But, somewhere along the way, you pause and wonder where the conversation is headed. What vibes are they putting out there? Are there any red (or green) flags you're not clocking?
Sometimes it can be hard to analyze a conversation (or even an opening message!) and ~assess the vibes~ objectively on your own, so it's nice to have a neutral third party weigh in. That's where I come in!!
I'm Hannah, and I'm currently living and dating in New York City. I'm on Hinge, Bumble, Tinder, and Raya. I've also done some dating in North Carolina, Los Angeles, and Ireland. I'm by no means an expert, but I've seen some stuff, and I've had my fair share of dating app successes and failures.
So, here I am. I'm just a girl, sitting in front of a computer, asking a bunch of internet strangers to send me their dating app DMs. Do you need help deciphering what your match is saying? Do you need help assessing whether or not your match is giving off "red flag energy"? Do you need help deciding if something is love-bombing or just general human kindness? Let me take a crack at it.
